OK there is a guy at school that everyone thinks i like, and the fact is I dont know
I enjoy spending time with him and he's nice, but I dont know if I like him that way >:(
Here-To-Help answered Thursday November 27 2003, 10:41 am: Well, if you really don't want people bothering you about this now then just tell them to back off...because it's okay to have a friend of the opposite sex, and when you do it doesn't mean you like them unless you feel that way.
Do you get butterflies in your stomach when you're about to see him...and are those butterflies just because you are excited about going out and doing something fun, or is it becasue you like him? You have to think about that. Maybe you need to take some time off of him right now...if he wants to talk, just say sorry I can't right now and let him know that if you want to, you know how to stay away...and maybe that will give all of your friends who think you like him a better understanding that you are both just friends...but then again, from taking some time off, you can also find whether you truly like him too.
Simple-Minded-Feebis answered Tuesday November 25 2003, 5:00 pm: well there are easy ways to figure that out. when you are around him do you feel like a pashionate feeling? and if you two are just friends why dont you try going out? you both know what you both like. and if it doesnt work you will always be friends. [ Simple-Minded-Feebis's advice column | Ask Simple-Minded-Feebis A Question ]
joolaygurl89 answered Sunday November 23 2003, 4:43 pm: It may just be that you like him as a friend. As people begin to notice the oppisite sex, they may get their feelings confused. What you think is love, could really just be a friendly love. Don't jump the gun and expect for a boyfriend, because the truth is, ya don't need one. Don't worry what your friends think. IF if does turn out in the end that you like him, so be it. Just don't get those feelings confused. [ joolaygurl89's advice column | Ask joolaygurl89 A Question ]
ScaperJess answered Sunday November 23 2003, 3:02 pm: If your not sure if you like him, chances are you don't, at least not in that way... you sound like you like him as a friend... believe me if you liked him, you would be more sure about it. You would know you like him. You would feel it. Signs you like someone... 1. You can't get them out of your mind 2. After you talk you think some of the things you said were stupid 3. While you talk to them you stumble 4. Them touching you in any way makes your stomach feel like it's fluttering... there are more, but those are some solid ones... [ ScaperJess's advice column | Ask ScaperJess A Question ]
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