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love,crush or not
ok well here is the deal i hate these things because they are all alike but i need to no
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ok my friend and i are semi close and he isnt really that cute but today when i passed him in the hall in the morning his eyes caught the light just right and i literally stoped and just stared at him and i mean last year he would make my knees go weak and melt every time i looked into his baby blue eyes (they are like brad pitts eyes in interview with a vampire when he is a vampire not before) and he has the most gorgeous lips but i have to say an ugly nose lol any way the other day i told him his sister told me he had little pink piggy's on his boxers and after i told him hes like well i do see and he showwed me cuase he was wearing them that day and omg i cant stop thinking about him but what i want to know is it love cause i am only in 9th grade or crush or nothing oh and jsut to let you all no io posted before and the title of that post was snibble it was under love relationships
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I dont really think that's love. You're probably crushing on him a lot. My friend && I had a talk about this today. He's a guy, && he kept saying that Like && Love are the same thing. && I highly
disagree with him. You just like him. I think it's a crush not love. Hope I helped!
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It's called infatuation.
Not love, infatuation. Never confuse the two.
And if you like him maybe you should try to talk to him a little more and to spend some time with him, hmm? (And I wouldnt read too much into him showing you his boxers, because in 9th grade all boys will do that).
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Okay, well...I don't know you (wink, wink) but the way I got a boy's attention once was dropping a note in his locker. Eventually he responded. But just don't get all your friends involved because that could ruin it (maybe one friend would be the best just to make you comfortable). If you're worried about losing the great friendship you guys have, then I'd say just to take it slowly...because these kind of things take patience. Personally, I don't think its love. I've had times where I thought I loved a boy, but as time went by I noticed I started to like him less and less until I realized it was only a crush. If you keep liking this boy one second, and then the next you don't...or if your not sure, then I think it's onlya crush.
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I can safely assure you it's not real love; more of a crush, or a form of infatuation. Real love is knowing someone, and their flaws, but accepting them for who they are. It's a feeling of great caring, hopefully mutual, with some from of physical and emotional intimacy. Since he is a mere friend at this time the physical and probably much of the emotional intimacy is missing to make it real love. There is nothing wrong with infatuation or crushes on people for a while, as long as it’s not so overpowering you end up throwing out your life friends and future for this person only to find once the “glitter” wears out he’s not anything you thought, which by your story I can't see. If you want my opinion I'd say ask him out, get to know him, you might make it real love, and his less than perfect nose won't even matter anymore ;)
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Well,I wouldn't call it love. I would call it, you being very interested in him in a boyfriend way. He's seems to be a little flirty. So try dropping hints to him about maybe going out, and if he seems to be giving you positive hints, then talk to him about it. But, don't rush things just yet. Don't want to scare him off. Good luck.
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