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Here's the deal.....I have already asked you that question about me and this kid liking eachother but his friend was in the way...remember me? Well, to make things worse, he has now found out that he is moving. His friend is finally over me and we now can date freely, but since the guy I like is moving, it is making things worse. Me and this guy have been talking and he explained to me that if we went out it would kill to move later on. So we decided not to go out. However, we are still majorly in love. We act like a couple, and do things as a couple, but we just don't call ourselves a couple. I don't know what to do. It is going to hurt so much when he moves away and I don't know if I will be able to get over it. This is how he feels, too. Is there anything I can do to help him? I think it is worse for him than for me. Whenever I try to help him or make him feel better, I end up making him feel worse because he knows he will have to leave me sometime or another. Help! I have tried focusing my attention on other guys...but it doesn't work. Any suggestions?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
well firstly, why is it killing him to leave? Is it because that you'll never see each other again? You can always write or call each other right? That's what love is about making the impossible work.
What I'm afraid of is that you two will split up just coz he's moving. Why? Ask yourself this question. Is it because deep down you know that maybe you don't exactly LOVE him as much and that he might get new girlfriends overseas? Why? If these questions are not bothering you at all, then, you 2 should stick together and work it out. Visit each other during the holidays and call or write.
As for the I can't think of any other guy thing, that's not true. You can. I remember having this case once. It felt like Love and stung like love. He went abroad for studies and I felt like I could never love anyone ever again. We were still attached, never broke up, but when he did return, I realised I had absolutely no feelings for him at all! I wasn't unfaithful or anything, it's just the feeling just fizzled out.
Mind you that it was a month b4 he returned. Time heals all wounds and yours will definitely heal, no matter how deep the cut. Trust that you'll recover and don't do anything foolish.
If you need to talk to anyone, I'm here. You can always shout at me scold me for my uncaring words, I'll be here for you. teri_advice@hotmail.com
Good luck, take care,
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