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Posted Sunday May 9 2004, 8:38 pm


Here's my problem, I am the youngest of 6. I'm 14 a gurl. (the yongest next to me is 24) I have 2 sisters and 3 brothers and about 1 week ago I found out that my brother is gay. he is almost 30 and the fact that he is gay does not bother me atall but I don't even know what is bothering me. My church does not beleive in being gay or anything. I dn't care what other people think so don't go telling that my church is awful.
i think 1 of my sisters is gay and I just am a stake of shock and don't know what to do. I also have a cousin that is gay (my aunts son) I feel like everything I thought was right and everything I thought I knew is out the window. I don't know what to believe and what not too.
My mother has such weird...

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My Mom


Posted Sunday May 9 2004, 5:51 pm

i am 14. Ok... me and my mom are always fighting. (about the smallest and STUPIDEST things) i know it's because we are so much alike, but i just found out we are moving in a month, my parents said they will take me to my high school if i have a good attitude (that means no fighting).. so i need tips on how to suck up to them and to avoid fighting with her.

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I need to talk to my parents.


Posted Sunday May 9 2004, 9:47 am

Let me explain the whole situation, I'm gay, and I have a girlfreind, and we have been dating almost 4 months now. My parents know I am gay, they have known since the first few weeks of me dating my girlfriend. At first, they were okay (stress the OKAY) but they werent really accepting. The still arent. In usual coming-out situations between child and parent, the parent says "We still love you no matter what" type of thing. I told my mom, all she said was 'I'de rather you be straight" and she told my dad, who has said absolutly nothing to me within these 4 months. My mom acts okay about it occasionaly, but for the most part, she doesn't like it, and thinks me and my girlfreind spend too much time together. My dad just hates i...

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My Brother


Posted Wednesday May 5 2004, 2:08 pm

I have a very screwed up family. But my problem is that my oldest brother is in the Army and has been in Iraq since November. Well, he came back for 2 weeks and I only got to talk to him once while he was here. He was to busy with his wife and 3 adopted daughters. Then I find out on the day he left that he called the rest of my family ie my twin brother, my sister, and a couple other relatives and NOT me! I am the youngest girl in the family and my brother sticks up for me but why would he not call me when he left?

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my mother is awful to me


Posted Tuesday May 4 2004, 5:49 pm

I'm 24 and I recently got married. The problem is that my mother is horrible to me. She has always been. She refused to be involved with the wedding in anyway, she refuses to have contact with my kids because she says they are bad(how bad can a 4and 2 year old and a 10 month old be?), she hates my husband and says its his fault she won't come around. She does not "allow" me to talk to my 17 year old brother unless she is there. And she won't allow me to see my daughter that she conned me into letting her adopt. That's not how mothers are supposed to treat their children. She recently told me she doesn't want to see me anymore. Should I just cut her out of my life and let it be?

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My Dad


Posted Saturday May 1 2004, 3:32 pm

ok, my dad hurt his leg a while ago, he twisted his foot all the way around once-falling off our deck, and he lost the nerve in his right foot to pick up the foot (not the leg but the foot). i see him doing this tuff work out side all the time, and its almost like i can see him getting hurt again, he trips over himself all the time, i just dont know what to do. please help.

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guilty


Posted Saturday May 1 2004, 10:13 am

my mother died a couple years ago and i feel like it's my fualt. as a child i didn't get a lot of attention from my friends so i kept wishing that someone in my family would die! and it happened and i regret everything i wished! is it my fualt my mom died?

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IM SCARED!!!!!!


Posted Wednesday April 28 2004, 5:09 pm

i dont know what to do!!!!!!! im so scared everynight that im going to get kidnapped or something!!!! how do i get over that fear so i can sleep at night??

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innoying dad


Posted Wednesday April 28 2004, 7:28 am

my dad will not let me ride around the neighborhood with a big group of friends or just one friend! he thinks someone is gunna snatch me up! so i have bike that i can't ride! i have to ride with an adult! it's
SO embarrasing! i tried talkin to him but he is being such a a........

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Help My sis...


Posted Monday April 26 2004, 6:10 pm

I am so proud of my sister! My sister is a model, and is best friends with Hilary Duff! She is in the movie Mean Girls, with Lindsay Lohan! I just reveived a modeling contract, but I am sorta jealous that my sis has been acting for 4 yrs! I am going to be in a movie, but hres is so much cooler, and she is so luky! She met Chad from the OC at the movie premeire! Hes sooo hot.


Please Help
Winona

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dad


Posted Sunday April 25 2004, 4:15 pm

im 14, so obviously im growin up, but my dad cant seem 2 accept dat i am! he says he doesnt want boys near me, n that im still a little girl. i know he just does it coz he luvs me, but i dont want him to treat me like a kid all my life!

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anyone know


Posted Friday April 23 2004, 10:20 pm

hello i recently gave gaurdianship of my son who lives in pa to my ex husband due to my son's behavior i thought it was for the best i still am suppose to see him every other weekend the problem is my ex mother in law she has power of attorney over my ex husband due to his limited mental state now she is taking control of my son and he has been acting up down at her home where they both live she told me that if he does not straiten up he wont be allowed to come here and visit due to the fact that i live around some rough kids i want to know if there is anything i can do legally to make sure i get my rights for a visit rather she likes it or not i dont have and i cant afford a lawyer is there something i can do thru the court myself does any...

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Um...


Posted Sunday April 18 2004, 7:42 pm

So, I'm usually on the advising end of this question, but I can never give myself advice. If you have any suggestions, I'll happily try them out.
Here's the scenario:
My mother grounded me indefinitely. (She's done this once before, but I got out of it by writing a persuasive essay telling her why she should lift my grounding and let me go to my friend's party.) She's been awful to me all day, and I guess I subconsciously retalliated by taking my friend in her car (my mom's allergic to everything) and driving us to the mall. It was planned that I'd go over to my friend's house, but not that we'd go to the mall. See, mom doesn't want me to take anyone in her car because she's allergic to perfume and scented laundry detergents...

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Posted Friday April 16 2004, 7:50 pm

You know what woman have every month . Well mine is late . I'm a virgin, but I am so worried . My dad won't stop sweatin me , and he knows I be at home or at school . I don't get out much . What should I do ? I can't stand this . He's (my father) has nagged me until now it's starting to bother me . I know I shouldn't worry if I haven't done anything wrong, but has anyone ever went through anything like this before .

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Posted Friday April 16 2004, 3:11 pm

I'm a 14 year girk l and i don't have a father ok my mom didn't tell my dad that i was his daughter till last year.After he found out he still doesn't talk to me his wife don't like me either i don't talk to my dads side of the family i have alot of brothers and sisters and i only know one of them. My brother dad and my dad are cousins and my brothers dad is a crake head and he was the only father that was there for me half of my life he was in and out of jail.My mom won't take my dad for childsupport she said to many headaches what do i do

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Posted Wednesday April 14 2004, 5:43 pm

My brother "phillip" who is 13 years old, is so evil to people that are handicpped and obese, So is my mom. My mom also goes gets drunk every night and leave my grandparents to take care of us. phillip can be nice sometimes if he gets his way. so what can i do to help my brother and my mom with their problems?

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Posted Sunday April 11 2004, 6:00 am

i've been really unhappy all my life anmd i put it to my dad dieing and school. i now getting homeschoolded but still so unhappy i think im still greaving my dad i am not allowed to talk about him any more and have not friends around to keep his memory alive. He was a great dad didnt do anything wrong my mum got a new partern 7 months after he died. I meet a guy of the internet as mates and i dont no if im in love with him coz i like him so much or coz he reminds me how i would hug n kiss my dad goodnight i was only 6 when he died now 16. I never b4 let my gard down would nt let anyone touch me not my brother or my mum not even mentors at school i let my gard down with him im so convused and uhappy i cart sleep i thought being away from all...

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I hate my little sister!!!!!


Posted Wednesday April 7 2004, 2:08 pm

My little sister drives me insane. and she hurts me and I tell my parents and they say she doesnt know ANY better.WITCH SHE DOES she. or they say and your talking.


your truely,
I wish I was an ONLY CHILD

P.S PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!

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Posted Tuesday April 6 2004, 2:51 pm

my mom has a friend and her daughter erased my game on my gameboy and I almost beat the game
how can I confront her?

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Help for my baby sister!


Posted Tuesday April 6 2004, 2:02 pm

I just moved here and we have neibors and a boy that is my little sisters age and they are both 5 years old and we have to be to him and she doesnt like him and she told him that she doesnt like him and then he said,"you wont get no kisses from me."



Signed,
confusedGirl

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