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dont know what to do with my family pt 2
Posted Thursday June 3 2004, 12:28 pm
I was the one who got kicked out and i saw the advice and they said to clean the house and stuff.. well i already do that and they dont apprciate it.I also watch my lil sis 24/7 and they are korean and i dont communicate with them well cuz they dont really lisen or try to understand.I try to understand where they come from but alot of times it doesnt make since.But i have tried talkin to them and they tell me to shut up. so i have no place to talk to them and they are barely ever home.I dont know what to do anymore.
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Dont know what to do with my family
Posted Thursday June 3 2004, 11:24 am
Recently i got kicked out of my house for not wanted to stay home and i am claimed to not do much for my family.. I believe i help out a little bit but everything that i have ever done has never been enuff for them.But i dont wanna get "kicked out" again. I must also note that i am under age and not old enuff to get kicked out. I wanna be able to go out and have fun but my parents dont understand that and i wanna make a compromise.. i jus dont know what to do!
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No Gift
Posted Monday May 31 2004, 3:01 pm
I have recently found out that my son and his family attend openhouses, birthday parties, and weddings. They bring a card, but no gift of any kind. They say they can't afford it, but I know they can spend money other ways, in needless toys, fast food, etc. I told my son that I thought this was tasteless. Their turn will come soon and people will remember. People will see their material things and will not understand why even a $5 bill couldn't be put in a card.
Am I wrong feeling this way?
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'evil' step mom
Posted Monday May 31 2004, 9:58 am
okay last year my dad got married to this girl and was all totally stressing. Today their still married and hes still totally stressing all the time. She freaks out at him over nothing and thats wierd cause' she only talks when shes mad at people. One time my dad paid for one semester of my brothers college and she flipped and carved a.s.s. into the side of his car. She has 3 kids ages 2,4,and 6 and my dad is always watching them while she does 'other things' which none of us know what they are... On the way to my dads wedding my brother and I had to seperate them bcuz they were in a huge fight and the day after their wedding she got mad at me for forgetting to tell her there was a message on the anwsering machine and she called my own mom...
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Having Cousin whoes on dark side
Posted Monday May 31 2004, 12:50 am
This summer is coming up, I maybe see my cusin well I love her so much she my best cusin and freind. well thing is that she can be on wild side and she drop out school get a job.. she likes punk music and stuff. I more of other side not punky and stuff like her. she hases these bypooler and deppression and she shave her head once. I want be ther for her and be her best friend agin like have good time and louhts but it hard becouse things inside me hurts what she doing to her self and I would talk to her but it wouldn't help.. I dont want judge my own cousin and I dont judge I just feel un combale things i dont know what to do..
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Thongs
Posted Saturday May 29 2004, 9:51 pm
I want to get a thong. I am almost 12 and my mom says I am too young! Whenever I ask her she said "Hell no Jennifer! How many fuc*ing times do I have to tell you?!" How can I convince her to let my buy one without her getting mad and yelling at me..... AGAIN!!!
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brother n his gf
Posted Friday May 28 2004, 8:21 pm
My brother has a gf. and i like her as a friend (im a girl im not lesbian) shes a good girl. and she wont break his heart. hes been hurt in the past. thing is he has like these mood swings and he has a trust issue with people outside of me and the rest of my bros. she wants to help him out and understand him better but like i said before he has a trust issue. but he says he loves her and everything. thing is i know that she wont stand for his mood swings and all that much longer i want to help him and her so they stay together. i dont want my brother to get his heart broke again. they're a good couple. HELP!
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my sister is driving me crazy!
Posted Tuesday May 25 2004, 11:33 pm
hey my sister is driving me crazy wat do i do
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Electric Bill
Posted Sunday May 23 2004, 10:33 pm
I was hot one night.... 3 nights. So I turned the air temerature down and then my mom realized and she said that costs money! my family doesnt have alot of that to spend on something like this! what should i do? i dont want them to be mad at me!
help!
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Posted Sunday May 23 2004, 7:50 pm
I've been trying to convince my parents to get me a cell phone forever. I've tried the "everybody has one" method and the "reasons I need one" method but they wont crack. How do I convince them to let me get one? I have my reasons(good ones too) for needing one.
Thanks 4 the help
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gymnastics
Posted Sunday May 23 2004, 6:09 pm
i can do a back hand spring but i caint land it i always land on my chest and my stomache wut can i do to land straight???????????
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piercing
Posted Sunday May 23 2004, 6:08 pm
I have been beging for an earing for about 3 years now. im 14 and in 8th grade i reall really want it but there is just no way that i can convince my parents i dont know what to do please someone help me in ways to convince them ive tried school grades are good chores for free and even going shopping for them once in awhile i dont know what to do anymore.....
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Sharing a bill
Posted Saturday May 22 2004, 2:23 pm
Hi, my name is Faith. Not my real name because I'm wary of that on the web. However I need some advice on how to bring a subject up to my brothers without causing anyone to be mad at me and my husband. My husband and I own our own home and for years have been sharing our water tap with my brothers who live next to us. We would now like them to have their own water taps because none of us should be paying a penny more than our own usage. We all have several children, we have a pool and one brother has a smaller pool for his children (not a kiddie pool). Our feeling is the only way to be fair is for everyone to have their own. My husband has delegated me to talk with them about this and find out when they might be able to get their ow...
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divorce
Posted Friday May 21 2004, 7:09 pm
i hate to ask too many questions but, in addition to my other problem, my parents are arguing every day and whenever they go near each other they yell and get mad. Does this mean they are going to divorce or is it possible they will work things out?
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Why do people belittle others for asking a question?
Posted Friday May 21 2004, 12:27 pm
This really bothers me. My mother-in-law in particular does this. First of all, to those that do this, STOP IT! Nobody knows everything. Just because you know something that someone else does'nt know, that does not make you better or smarter than them. And even if you are smarter, let's say more educated, you can still be respectful when answering a question. This also applies to you advice people. I'll give you an example that happened today with my mother-in-law. She is getting her house painted and I asked her why her house had spots all over it, and she answers in this patronizing way " They have to fill in all the holes and cracks, they can't just leave it like that and slap paint on it. Well excuuuse me. I don't know anything abo...
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my life is mest ^
Posted Tuesday May 18 2004, 11:04 pm
my mom and dad are divoce and i keep on thinking my mom and my sis only care about my dad's money,and my uncle is in jail 4 5 years and i think my mom's friend husdand tryed touching me and my dad got married without asking us
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Child Support ( arrears ) Unpaid Taxes ( Ten Years ) etc.
Posted Monday May 17 2004, 8:17 pm
Well I guess it was bound to happen.
I have been served with a Summonds to appear in court to explain why I haven't finnished paying My Child Support, I have tryed It was 59.000.00
I got it down to 14.597.00.
A lot has happen and I wont bore you with the details or make you cry.
Everything has just piled up.
Unpaid Taxes (unknown amount)
Cable 600.00
Phone 300.00 etc.
I just don't know how to start or where to turn.
Any suggestions I need advice.!!
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abuse during childhood
Posted Friday May 14 2004, 12:31 pm
My husband claims that he was physically and mentally abused by his alcoholic father while growing up. His mother and siblings claim that he is exaggerating, not one of them agree with his version. They say, in fact, that he was the one who got the most attention from the father because he was the star athlete of the family. My husband has turned out to be a very irresponsible adult, making compulsive decisions, always leading to disaster, we are financially ruined because of his get rich quick schemes, his gambling, bad business ventures, running up credit cards and bills he never intended to pay. He acts like a selfish, spoiled child, and often throws "adult" tantrums when he doesnt get his own way. He is selfish with his time, ...
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Handling parents affairs
Posted Tuesday May 11 2004, 8:39 pm
I placed my parents in a highly recommended nursing home in Ohio. The care they got was excellent. The billing and financial affairs were not. Over the course of their stay (they are both now dead) the nursing home forged my fathers signature on his social security funds removing them from his bank account and depositing them in the home. Questions about the billing never made sense and all inquiries went unanswered. After mother died they sent me a bill for almost $22,000 with no detail and then went into court in Ohio (I live in Colorado) and got a judgement against me for same. When my father died, they sent me a form asking my permission to be administrator of dads estate which I refused. They did it anyway. Then sent me a demand for $4...
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stupid big mouth!!!!
Posted Tuesday May 11 2004, 3:35 am
i was just sitting at the computer and i had my webcam on and i didnt notice it but with how i was sitting u could see down my shirt and when my mom told me she told me to turn the webcam off. i did. then i fixed my positioning and check to make sure no one could see anything then i turned it back on and she took it!!!! how can i get it back without sneaking it back then getting caught and getting into even bigger trouble???
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