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If you want to avoid the point, simply take offense. -Intuit


I came here to answer computer questions. (This used to say "...and nothing more.")


What I meant was, I don't know how much help I would be with other things... NOT that I would be upset if you asked a non computer question!


No matter the subject, Ask Away! (I'll do my best.)


DangerNerd.


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Dangernerd,

I'm seeing advertisements again; does this mean I need to send you $10.00?

Adviceman49 (link)
Indeed, another year has gone by. Who can even believe that?

You don't need to send anything, as I appreciate your help here.

All the best!

DN.


I have a single page website (for the most part). You can either scroll down or click on menu buttons to go directly to different parts of the page. I want to use a tracking tool like HotJar but will it work with a single page? Will it know the various sections of my page?? (link)
This is something you can easily accomplish with hotjar by selecting the proper page change tracking settings:

https://docs.hotjar.com/docs/hotjar-on-single-page-apps

... That is for the menu clicks to new targets, if you want to track the scrolling, you will likely need to use a javascript trigger to signal that there is a location change.

Hope that helps.


I am female, going to be 18 on Friday, and I live in the USA.

I work in the office building at a factory and on site they have a medical center that employees can go to for dirt cheap. Since I am almost 18 I decided I should probably visit the doctor there while I have the chance since I haven't in a while and my family nor I can afford anywhere else. Then that got me thinking about my anxiety.
I have had anxiety since I was in middle school. I've always been a worrier, but it used to be really bad, to the point where I had to mentally prepare myself just to go to a checkout in a store for fear of the person speaking to me. Anytime anyone I didn't know very well spoke to me or anytime I was in a crowd I would freeze and go completely numb. My mind would go blank, I'd start sweating, I'd be barely able to speak and my stomach would get this weird feeling like I drank 10 cups of coffee. I knew there was something off, but I figured I was just a baby and tried to ignore it and force myself to get over it.
About a year or so ago it started getting a lot better.
But for the last two months or so it has started getting worse again, but different. Before it was super intense and only happened when something specific triggered it and now it's a lot more mild but happens several times a day for no reason.

I've now come to realize that it was probably anxiety, and looking back I'm noticing more and more things that point it more toward anxiety.
I can handle it and know how to calm myself down as I'm used to it, but it's really annoying to be at work and need to rush to the bathroom to sit on the floor for 10 minutes taking deep breaths until I can stand without shaking. But since I now have the opportunity to talk to a doctor for cheap without telling anyone since I'm going to be 18(no one, not even my parents, know about it) I'm wondering if I should, but I'm kinda scared of what if I really am just over reacting and I don't have anxiety and if I do what if the doctor there can't help me and what do I tell people if he prescribes me meds but I can't afford counseling and I just don't know what to do...I've dealt with it alone for so long that I don't know if I should even bother...
Any insight would be greatly appreciated, thank you to all who read. (link)
Basically, if you go to the doctor, and tell them this, they will put you on medication. I can tell from what you have written here, that your mind is telling you to think twice.

I am related to someone who's teen was put on meds because she was shy... rather than teaching her how to handle herself around people, a skill which EVERYONE needs to learn at some point, they put her on medication for "Social Anxiety Disorder."

Months later, she killed herself. (A well KNOWN side effect of the medication she was given.) Please consider counseling before you go the medication route. If my family members had known that the doctor was PAID to write every psychotropic medication prescription, they never would have gone along with this, and that beautiful girl would still be alive today.

Please, please, PLEASE, I am begging you:

Please watch this before going to the doctor:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IgCpa1RlSdQ

... and here is more information on the topic:

http://www.cchr.org/videos/marketing-of-madness/

... please click the links on the left for more info.



HI...you recently gave me an answer to my question on how to edit an answer of mine, with my original text to copy/paste, but I can't find the original question that I answered. Can you help me? Thanks! Nor (link)
Hi there,

Just click the link to the left, under Registered Users, the one that says edit answers.

You can also look at your advice column page here:

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Nor


Hi,

My username is Nor and I recently answered a question along the lines of "need advice from someone spiritual."

In the answer, I referred the poster twice...once near the begininning of my advice and once near the end of my advice to a website called "WebMD." I actually meant to say "Healthgrades"...not "WebMD."

Can you please change this to "Healthgrades," in both places? This is very important, as the question related to mental illness.

Thank you so much!

Nor (link)
Hi there,

Here is what I can do: I will delete your current answer, and I will let you re-answer it as you wish. I will paste your original answer below here, if you wish to re-use it, with the changes made, of course, and please... there will be a link at the bottom of it when you paste it in, so delete that before you post. Thanks! Here it is:

Honey,

I think that I can help you, as I was hospitalized 12 times and by the grace of God found the right medication.

You need to go back to the psychiatrist or find yet another one if you don't feel comfortable with the previous psychiatrists...you can talk to your parents, friend, or social services to help you find one if you can't do it on your own. You or someone else can go to WebMD online, put in your zipcode, specify "Psychiatry," and then read the profiles of ones in your area, what their areas of expertise are, and how many years of experience they have. If you choose to go with a new psychiatrist, try to find one that has 15-25 years of experience to be on the safe side, but you might get lucky with a really good psychiatrist with less experience as well if nobody with more experience is in your area. Choose one that you like and give them a call for an appointment. You may have to wait about a month for a new appointment as a new patient, and that's ok....if you feel terrible in the meantime, you can go to the hospital.

When you see the psychiatrist, tell him or her EXACTLY how you feel. Be 100% honest including anything embarrassing. Take the information you got from the previous psychiatrists with you...only the parts that made sense to YOU. Tell them that you are in desperate need for help. For example, in my case, I was told I needed a "sedating" medicine by one psychiatrist, so I took that information to the next psychiatrist because it made sense to me.

If you can, make a list beforehand of the medications you have tried so far and write down what you DID and DIDN'T like about each one. Read off the paper EXACTLY when you are in their office so you don't forget anything. It may take several appointments for you to give them all this information, and that's ok...it will be worth it in the end. Be 100% honest, and let the psychiatrist take it from there. It is their job to help you, so trust them.

If you don't remember what medications you took or how you felt on the other medications, that's ok too. You can ask your parents to have your medical record pulled up if they can OR, if not possible, you can start completely from scratch and pretend you haven't tried anything yet. Take all the pressure off yourself and let the psychiatrist do the work.

If you are trying to follow this advice and the psychiatrist is not cooperative or difficult to work with, tell them that you will think about things and give them a call back. Choose another psychiatrist off of WebMD. If you like them better, go with them. You can call the first psychiatrist and tell them that you've switched if you have energy to and/or feel like doing so, but you've also left the door open to return to them if the 2nd psychiatrist's appointment doesn't go well. Or, you could call a third at that point.

You WILL find the right medication. God is on your side...I'm guessing you are just one phone call away (to another psychiatrist or to a previous one that you feel at least ok with) from the start to your new life.

God bless you,

Love, Nor


ANY CHANCE YOU HAVE DRAFTPAK FOR CADKEY 98 wmbabs@aol.com (link)
Hello there,

The only place I can suggest you look is the company that bought out CADKEY, Kubotech, which you can find here:

http://kubotek3d.com/Products/CADKEY.aspx

They may have a source for it.

I have seen some machinists forums trading the software as abandonware, though I don't know is valid or not:

http://www.practicalmachinist.com/vb/cad-cam/cadkey-98-a-244551/

All the best, and happy drafting! :-)


will dc motor run on diodes solar panel (link)
Yes, all you need is a solar panel, and a small enough motor for it to power. The diode is to keep power from draining back to the solar panel if you had a battery that it was charging. The motor will run without a diode at all, if you like.

Have fun!


How can I insert in back hole of my gf (link)
Ask your girlfriend... I promise you she will have some specific ideas about this topic.


How can I get can mp3 of the song asha touch the sky? (link)
Here you go:

https://www.amazon.com/Touch-The-Sky/dp/B0086HH7L4/ref=sr_1_1?s=dmusic&ie=UTF8&qid=1471731356&sr=1-1&keywords=asha+touch+the+sky


Dangernerd,

If you select my column to send a question its says at the top "This columnist is not accepting questions at this time." "why is this and would you please remove it so those that I answered questions can send me follow up questions.

Thank you (link)
Hi there,

This could be a self inflicted wound... ;-)

On your profile settings page:

http://www.advicenators.com/settings.php

"Who can ask you questions?"

Change it to what you like.

All the best,

DN.



I have pubic hair around my penis (link)
This is not a question, it is a statement.


lol what other dares u could do




(link)
Please consider typing some more info. If you are responding to another question, please let people know. We have no idea what you are referring to at this point. :-)

Thanks,

DN.


I'm new on wattpad and I can't even get ONE person to so much as know my story exsists! This is fucking annoying me. I don't care if I don't get thousands of followers, but can I at least have, idk, 50? Even that seems impossible. How do you get noticed? It's not fucking fair! (link)
Please consider writing this again, in a civil manner. Cussing at people you expect to help you is frequently a bad way to find help. :-(

As for wattpad, it is a closed system. People from outside wattpad neither know, nor care about anyone or anything written withing the site. Try googling yoru wattpad username and the word wattpad for a better understanding of what I mean.

Perhaps the best way to be seen, is to write in a public forum, perhaps your own blog, that can be found and accessed by anyone.

Most importantly, ask yourself one question: "Why would anyone follow me?"

If you wouldn't follow you, why would you expect others to? What I mean by this is simply: Write spectacular work, and people will follow you without you screaming the f-word on an advice site. ;-)

All the best.

While you are welcome to write questions here, please be kind to others when you do so.

Thank you,

DN.


What is the furma of S S D (link)
You are going to have to ask this again with greater detail, since I have no idea what you mean.


If a guy has cancer and you swallow his cum do you get cancer ?
(link)
It would depend on the type of cancer he has.

If he has cancer caused by HPV, and you put the thing that has HPV in your body, then that could be an issue.

As you see in the answers here, the general thought is that one person with cancer can't harm another person, but this has been medically debunked. In fact, the primary reason for the current HPV vaccine is to prevent the spread of oral, vaginal, rectal and penile cancer.

A vaccine to prevent the spread of a contagion that causes cancer. Pretty much makes sense, eh?


there is this guy im somewhat close to at work...but he isn't a co-worker but we talk all the time....I guess u can say we are just building friends.....well I was eating my lunch (tacos to be exact) and he came in the breakroom teasing me as usual and he says you always eatin I said yup, he was like I see you got tacos, I said "yeah, I deserve this" and he said with seriousness in his tone/face "I think you deserve a little bit more than a taco dinner" and he repeated himself again, smiled at me and walked away...... I didn't say anything, i just kept eating.....can anyone decipher this? Thanks (link)
Well, it sounds possible he put himself out there to see if you would let him take you out to eat someplace nice... he even made the offer twice, and you wouldn't even respond.

If that was the case, you can expect a different attitude the next time you meet. People don't like rejection, which is why he said it the way he did.

At the very least, you know he likes you, because he thinks you deserve better things in life.

If you like him, you might think about trying to salvage this, and if you don't, then just let it go.


All the best!


Hi ths question follows my previous one bout the guy i just met And what i left out was that my bestfriend have sex with him sometimes and she only told me afterwords me and him slept together but she have a boyfriend and he told me not to tell her but instead i dd cause i trust her..bt she says its my fault and things..i deleted both of their numbers i really dnt get why hs angry with me..it makes me wonder what she told him (link)
Hi there,

Please ask one more question, and make sure it contains all the details you want people to know. The people answering the questions may not know what other questions belong to you, so they can't really answer you.

Remember: I know you are upset, but please include all the details in one question.

Thank you,

DN.


DangerNerd,

Is there a reason I no longer see a questioners past questions or history. I'm still a level one advisor and I am not seeing any advertising. Do I need to send you another $10.? (link)
Howdy!

Amazing how fast this year went by, isn't it? Sure enough your account upgrade had expired!

Thanks for the offer of the ten-spot, but this one is on me.

Thanks for doing your best to help so many people, it is truly appreciated!

All the best,

DN.


I want you to know how much I appreciate you! I truly pray that good things happen to you. I know other peoples problems can be so insignificant and even an inconvenience at times but for you to not know me yet find a solution to my problem and make it a priority... you are the type of people we need back in this world. Sorry to be so corny haha. But it really means the world to me. I was worried that would follow me around for the rest of my life and how was I ever going to explain that to certain people. :p

I have googled my name and unfortunately it is still there at the moment... but its back a few more pages so that's better at least. Do you happen to know how often google resets? Thank you again for everything. You have made a difference at least for me and my family by doing what you did. Thank you!! (link)
Thank you for your kind words!

I am glad your situation is working out the best possible way, and everyone here is just glad we were able to do something about your problem.

As for Google... well, this is one of those good news/bad news situations. I have seen things vanish in a week, and I have seen them hang around for 6 months. Hopefully, your situation will be one of the quick ones.

Please remember us in the future, and, when you have time, please consider helping other people by answering their questions when you can.

All the best to you going forward with your life. :-)

DN.


love you loads xxx (link)
English only please. :-)




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