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Trouble Reaching Orgasm
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Posted Thursday August 4 2011, 2:07 am

My boyfriend and i have always had sex very often for about 2 years now. He is always able to get hard right away and can go for a very long time. However, lately he hasnt been able to get an erection as easily and we are only able to go 2 or 3 rounds instead of 5 or 6 like before. The last couple times we had sex he wasnt even able to stay hard enough to finish having sex. We have increased the amount of sex from twice a week to maybe three days in a row, but there have been no changes in diet, stress or anything. He is still able to feel horny and aroused, however his penis wont get hard. Any ideas as to what is causing this? Could our increased amount of sex have anything to do with it?

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goes soft during intercourse? Pains in his penis?


Posted Monday July 25 2011, 7:11 pm

so the past few times that ive been having sex with my boyfriend, within the first 2 minutes he feels like he`s about to cum, so he has to keep stopping for 5 seconds each time. so when he finally has it under control and hasnt finished, he starts to become really soft and i can get it hard again, but as soon as we start having sex it goes soft again. and he doesnt know why and neither do i..this has never happened before out of the 4 months we`ve been hanging out..it just started happening about 2 weeks ago..its also weird because he used to not finish for at least 10 or 15 minutes into it..and today he just texted me and said he`s having pains in his penis so i dont know..what do you think the problem is

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Can't Orgasm & It's starting to affect my relationship


Posted Friday July 22 2011, 1:19 am

18/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years. We have been doing "foreplay" for the majority of this time but have only started having sex for the past 5 months or so.

Put simple, no matter what I do I can't seem to finish for him. It gets to a point where things feel SO good, up to a point where I physically stop him (i.e. grab his hand or push him off). It seems so intense and so good that I cant take anymore and I just can't help it. So that's the basic problem in a nutshell, however there is more to it but you don't have to read it all if you have any ideas on what could help me.

Anyways, some background things that may hinder answers are:
1.) I dont traditionally...

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Lasting longer on the second round of sex


Posted Sunday July 17 2011, 11:03 pm

If I jerk of before sex will that help in making me last longer when I recover

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Bleeding after masturbation?


Posted Sunday July 3 2011, 2:45 am

I masturbated for like 10 min and i started to bleed a Lil and after i stoped my vagina is hurting? what did i do? i am a female and 13 years old

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The right age to start using a vibrator?


Posted Monday June 27 2011, 6:29 pm

what's the right age to use vibrator ..?

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he keeps trying but i just wont cum


Posted Sunday June 19 2011, 2:31 am

Me and my boyfriend have an extremely active sex life. There was never one time he didnt nut after sex or sexual activities. I know hes always satisfied and im not saying that im not because i am but i just wont cum. Now i know the concept of women possibly not being stimulated enough to cum only throuh intercourse because the clitorus isnt getting enough stimulation but when he gives me oral sex my clit is beyond stimulated for very long periods of time and still nothing. Ive tried being relaxed while tensing up my lower area or either of those alone as well as focusing on how good it feels and breathing through my nose but nothing is getting me there. Anybody got some good experience and advice for me?

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Is it normal to ONLY achieve an orgasm through G-spot stimulaion?


Posted Friday May 27 2011, 10:15 pm

When masturbating, I find the most success with targeting my G-spot. When I try to orgasm through clitoral stimulation, there isn't the same effect. I don't get the same rush. It doesn't even feel all that good. But when I read about masturbation, G-spot orgasms seem REALLY rare. What is going on? G-spot orgasms aren't hard for me to achieve on my own and I am sure it is an orgasm.

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daily handjob


Posted Friday May 13 2011, 4:59 pm

what will happen we daily doing handjob??

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i cant seem to get myself off :(


Posted Friday May 6 2011, 12:52 am

im 18 female and i cant seem to find any way to pleasure myself. Ive tried fingering myself and touching myself but its not pleasant to me at all :( the only thing that seems to give me any sort of pleasure is 'pillow sex' where you basically rub yourself against or ride a pillow. Even then i cum but i can never have an orgasm. Im worried that (being a virgin) that the first time i have sex or let a guy finger or go down on me that i will be left with a very embarrassing situation, and that i wont be able to orgasm in any form of sexual activity. I do however know that a large percentage of women arent able to have orgasm through penetration, and that it usually involves foreplay to make a them orgasm. But i dont know if even that will work...

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Unable to get aroused... trouble reaching orgasm


Posted Saturday April 30 2011, 1:35 am

I am 25 and 5 months ago I had my second child (20 months apart from my first one). I am breastfeeding, and I have noticed my period has been really off and weird. But I also noticed that I cannot get aroused at all..and even if I try masturbating alone I can never reach a climax...It is very frustrating for both me and my husband.

Is this normal? and is there anything I can do to fix this??

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doggy style doesn't work? neither does me on top?


Posted Tuesday April 19 2011, 12:40 am

I'm 18f and I'm 5 foot; My boyfriend is 6'1; We usually have sex with me on bottom, and I get bored. I like to take controll sometimes as well, and I have a hard time reaching the "0". I never have actually, so I figured new positions would help. We tried me on top, and It won't stay in, it's always coming out, and I try to go slow, and not move up as much but it still manages to come out. My boyfriend is 7 1/2 inches, so I don't think his size is why.

When we do it Doggy Style, it doesn't work, at all. Literally.No matter how much I spread my legs apart, or even bring my body up, he can never get it in, or even keep it in,

Any advice on some good sex positions, or even some tips to help me reach the ...

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I am addicted to playing with my girl parts


Posted Monday April 18 2011, 12:16 am

Hi i am thirteen and i play with myself! I dont know why i do it but i try to find anything that vibrates and i stick it down there it feels so good tto me but it makes me feel funny! but i love the way it tingles down my body and i am addicted to it what do i do???

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Afraid to Masterbate...


Posted Tuesday April 12 2011, 8:41 pm

I'm 14 and a girl and I think I really want sex or the touch of someone else. I think about it a lot and I sometimes dream about it. I know I am really young so sex isn't really the best thing...I know about masterbating but I am afraid to touch down there. As in like skin to skin. Like using my finger. And I don't think I am comfortable on putting some house hold object up there either...and I definatly can't get a dildo. I need help...any adivce?

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What is supposed to happen when i finger myself


Posted Saturday April 9 2011, 9:54 pm

i just fingered myself and didnt feel anything special...so i was wondering what is supposed to happen?

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why cant I "cum"?


Posted Monday February 21 2011, 11:33 pm

Well I'm still a virgin but I masterbate a lot. Ill orgasm and right when I'm about to "finish" the feeling goes away but I never cum at all. Its dry down there .. =/ what's wrong with me? TMI? I'm a female btw

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my boyfriend wants me to squirt how do i do that


Posted Saturday February 12 2011, 12:58 pm

my boyfriend wants me to squirt during an orgasm how do i do that.

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i want to let go during sex


Posted Monday February 7 2011, 12:52 pm

I can never let go during sex.what I mean by that is I never mmoan or speak dirty or make any noises to show I'm enjoying it.
I feel so awkward doing it and feel like I loolk and sound so stupid.
How do I just moan and show the guy I love it?

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I like... boys but I also like lesbain porn


Posted Friday January 28 2011, 3:50 am

hey ya'll i am 13 female and i like lesbain porn. i dont know why but it just seems sexy and hot to me. im not a lesbain but it is just better for me to see lesbains having sex and what nots than to see a man and a woman. i was wondering if that is bad? is or no?
i rate high for good answers!
THANKS

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Am I a bad person because I mastorbate?


Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 6:32 pm

I'm only a 14yo girl and I have started mastorbating more and more latly. It feels so good but for some reson I feel really bad when it's over. Even though I feel bad about it I can't stop. Is this normal? Should I stop?

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