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Is lotion ok and safe to use as lube during sex?
Posted Monday January 3 2011, 9:32 pm
My boyfriend and have been having a lot of sex and he said it'd be easier if we used some lube to get things started at first because I don't get really, really wet. I have some lotion (unscented and scented varieties) here and I was wondering if that works okay as lube for sex or not? We're both kind of young and we're both embarrassed to go to the the store for sex lube lol So, does lotion work well?
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How do you know when your about to cum?
Posted Monday January 3 2011, 3:00 am
I have never released cum before during sexual intercourse. What does it feel like before you do it? Like how will I know when Im about to cum, so I can actually finish successfully?
*I've had feelings in the past of feeling like I had to pee really bad, and my ex use to tell me all the time that it was because I had to nut and it was cum building up, and for me to let it out, and when I try to during intercourse, nothing happens, it just hurts.
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Sex Doesnt Feel Good
Posted Friday December 17 2010, 1:33 am
Im 17 and have had sex since i was 14. I have had sex many times but it just does not feel good. It doesnt hurt( although sometimes it does) but i never orgasim while having sex and i hate when my boyfriend goes in deep, thats the part that hurts. i have made myself orgaism before, but during sex its impossible. why is this?
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how to give a guy a boner?
Posted Tuesday November 30 2010, 9:37 pm
So umm. There is this guy that i like and i know he likes me. But everytime I try i cant give him a boner. I have tryed touching him but nothing. Please help.
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How comes I can't keep my focus during sex?
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 11:47 pm
Okay so whenever I would sleep with someone and I've only slept with about about five guys, and they'd go in too deep they'd make me bleed, and like it hurts. And I've also found like I can't keep my focus when I'm having sex and I feel bad because like I want to make him happy but like I can't do it well if my head isn't into it. And I just don't know what to do and is it normal to not really be loud during sex? I feel so unnornal because I rarely moan during sex and it doesn't feel as amazing as like you seen in the movies. Any advice?
(18/F)
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i turn myself on
Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 11:20 pm
this is gonna sound so conceited haha but i get turned on by my own body. like i have big boobs and they just turn me on a guess. i'm completely straight i know that for a fact. i get turned on by guys and can only picture myself with a guy. thats why i find this so weird. why is this? does anyone else have this problem?
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Sex ..always on my mind
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 11:29 pm
18Female.
So I recently lost my virginity, about two/three weekends ago. Oh my gosh, it was amazing haha. But now it's all I can think about like I want it all the time. And I don't have a boyfriend, and the guy I wanna do it with is about four hours away for hockey so he will rarely come back but once I see him, I can get it from him ;)
I don't know what to do though. Masturbating doesn't work, I hate it actually. Like I need a guy, I need that feeling and I'm going crazy! Is it normal for me to think about it all the time, I know guys do but now I feel like a perv or something haha.
Suggestions, anything?
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Masturbating but not feeling anything??
Posted Sunday August 15 2010, 5:27 pm
Hi, I'm 19/F.
So, here's some background info that you may need to answer my question...
I lost my virginity in January 2010. When I was having sex with the guy, it burned (because of the stretching and everything and I was really tight because I have only worn a tampon ONCE. EVER. Because as soon as I got on birth control 3-4 years ago I have super light periods if I have them at all...I'm on the Depo Shot).
Anyways, so the first time it obviously burned a little bit. The second time I had sex with the guy it started to feel good right when he came. So that was a bummer I didn't have an orgasm.
So then, about a week later I had one of my guy friends over and we were flirting and ...
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how to control a boner
Posted Monday August 2 2010, 5:15 pm
hi I am a 14 / m & I am getting these hard ons all the time at school. it is embarrassing and I don't want to get them any more in front of everybody when I cant hide it. I want to control My erections basically. I googled it and read that guys have "their own way of controlling boners" but then I dont know any ways so it didn't help Me. I hate getting hard in class. can somebody give Me some tips so I can stop getting hardons in class and control Myself better?
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I am bad at sex
Posted Saturday July 31 2010, 5:08 am
I have problem I don't last long when having sex. I get too excited when at the foreplay stage then when I actually come to the sex part I don't last long at all. Is there any advice people can give me please
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fingered in a hot tub
Posted Sunday July 25 2010, 8:34 pm
the other day my boyfriend fingered me in the hot tub while we were making out and it was really amazing and after he was hard but i didn't return the favor because i really wasn't expecting anything to happen that night (i just couldnt fight it when he was doing it haha) and i didn't feel ready to really go down there, and i don't really even know what to do.. so could you please tell me if its okay that i didn't do anything for him or not.. and EVERYTHING i need to know about when i do go down there..
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am i bad for fingering myself.
Posted Thursday June 17 2010, 12:07 pm
Helllo I have a problem when i finger my self i get a really nice feeling and a tingle but am i a bad person for this and am i a slut?x
Please answer this question.
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Why can't my girlfriend cum?
Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 4:04 pm
Hello,
I am a male (18) and I've been having sex with my girlfriend for five months now. As the title says my girlfriend has trouble cumming. I am not sure why this is, the past five months she has never had an orgasm. I can however give her a clitorial orgasm, but not a vaginal one. I haven't yet tried fingering her to that point and she refuses to finger herself.
I wonder if there's anything I can do to make her get her orgasm. She is really getting frustrated during sex, she actually gets to the point when the orgasm should come, "but then everything disappears" she says. These frustrations occur multiple times during sex, followed by an emotional breakdown(on her side).
I real feel ...
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banana.
Posted Sunday May 16 2010, 8:50 pm
I tried masturbating with a banana because I read that it felt really good, but then I bled after a couple minutes. Should I be worried?
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how do I make myself squrit?
Posted Wednesday April 14 2010, 10:06 pm
how do I make myself squirt? My boyfriend really wants me to but I don't understand what I am doing wrong. I don't mean to be gross or anything but can only some girls do it or is there some special thing I need to do? Thank you!
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dildo
Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 10:46 pm
What can i use instead of a dildo, because i can'not buy one and have no one to buy it for me. I use a plastic coat hanger (but ofcourse i clean it)but it doesn't seem to be working. All i do is stick it in and move it in and out which is what you are suppose to do but i feel no pleasure! PS: if i clean it with soap and water real good, can i get an infection? what can i use and how do i make it feel good, can i get an infection?
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guys cumming
Posted Monday March 22 2010, 12:51 am
i was wondering .. i seem to cum really fast no matter if im masturbauting or having sex. I see guys on pornos lasting so long. How do some guys last longer than other guys? im 17 m btw
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fingering
Posted Wednesday February 24 2010, 10:40 pm
hey so my bf wants to "finger me till i orgasm' is that possible? hahah.
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? for u
Posted Saturday January 30 2010, 5:00 pm
do women have cum because when I get turned on white stuff comes out my vagina
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female masturbation for the horny but underage
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 7:41 pm
so im really really insanely horny....like seriously. i need help i want it sooo bad. but im underage, so i need the best masturbation techniques. i have an electric toothbrush, but it only gets me so far. and i cum in my bathtub but only sooo much
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