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I need advice .
Our school went on a trip. My friend's names are A, C, G, and I. We 5 stayed with another group of 5 members who are very close to C and I. So, that another group gave mine, A and G's name to mam when she asked there are three cabinets empty in her room. They gave our name to shift and gave silly reasons like we made the room wet when all made it wet after trekking. The main reason was mingling problem that we 3 weren't mingling with them so yeah we went out of the room. But C and I ignored me and A so much. They acted like we are strangers literally. And now, C is saying sorry and saying that she did put efforts into talking with me when she didn't at all and saying that I didn't do the minimum effort to talk. All hypocrisy. I don't know whether to accept C's friendship back or not. Tell me what should I do? Should I accept her friendship back or no? And yeah C and V who is a girl of that another group removed A's bag which we kept on seat on which they say because it was empty of bus. And they sat there and when we asked for it back, they are saying in morning they sat there first. We said you should have kept any belonging there because so many people did but they are saying they kept on the upside of the bus cuz money was in it but so many people kept their bag on seat money containing to protect their seat so basically it's illogical of her
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When people are young, they are not always into loving and caring for others and are only looking out for themselves. Sometimes that changes as a person grows up and becomes an adult, whether in age or in behavior. Sometimes a person does not change. So if you can tolerate the rocky road for now and wait to see what she becomes like in the future, then stick with her. If you can not stand for the behavior, maybe it is time to learn about forgiveness. Saying sorry and lying at the same time to make an excuse for one self is not a true sorriness for ones actions. Saying sorry with an immediate change for the better in behavior is what counts. If it was a court case, the one in the wrong would need to do more than say sorry, like making amends, which are usually monetary in court, but in a friendship could be as simple as buying your favorite candy bar to give you along with a card. Then there is the part about forgiving others that we all need to learn, heck I went through this as well although mine wasn't with friends which you can change but with family members, each at a separate incidence and time imagining things in their mind, stopping talking to me for about 6 months in each case. I was married at the time. But it still was hard when I know I did nothing worry. I simply waited until they got over whatever deal they made up in their heads and were willing to talk again, answering my calls this time. I did not ask them to apologize because in my heart, I had already forgiven them. Everyone gets tested on something having to do with forgiveness and some are really hard to be willing to forgive. So perhaps, there is even something you can learn, some way to improve who you are by going through this rather than avoiding it by cutting off contact
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