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i used my sisters vibrator
hii i used my sisters vibrator not thinking and she doesnt have stds but for the past couple of weeks ive been itchy every so often and my vag smell smells diff im 13
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The only thing I would add is that personal items like this shouldn't be shared for the reasons you outlined and per the advice below. Your sister likely wouldn't be happy you did so I wouldn't mention that part obviously. However, there is nothing wrong with being curious and mentioning you saw it and wanted to know more about them. She might be very open with you about this and perhaps may be able to get you your own if asked. That may be better than asking your mom if you reach out to an older female who has no problem with talking about this or purchasing one. There's a lot worse you could ask about than this. Masturbation is a normal thing everyone does so discussing this with a parent or an older female you trust like your sister shouldn't be something to feel embarrassment or even worse shame about. I would start a dialogue with her.
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First off, the best thing you can do when not old enough to go to sex shops to buy a nice vibrator or vibing dildo, is to purchase a vibrating toothbrush. This will be only for your clit, never for your teeth. Actually, I prefer that, although its only used for the clit, not inside. But clit orgasms are great and will do for now. Use the back side where no bristles are against you. You might be able to tolerate the bristles, just be sure its the soft bristles.
Next, keeping clean down there is not as hard as one thinks. But using a vibrator that most likely was not properly cleaned afterwards could have caused the issues. Your vagina has its own ecosystem where it cleanses itself out, good bacteria is part of that. But there are things that can upset that balance. So the less you do to that area, the better for you. The couches meant to keep you smelling pretty down there are actually known culprits of killing the good bacteria which allows yeast to grow so I stopped using douches in my 20s. Bubble baths or washing with soap....thats another irritant. getting antibiotics will definitely cause a yeast infection...either vaginal, or by the anus. The meds allowed yeast to grow in my poop so I ended up with an itchy rash there once. Meds are used when you get a UTI, urinary tract infection. I had this happen as well. I was wiping myself as one should from front to back and not the other way where germs from a bowel movement. So to treat a yeast infection, you would need to purchase Miconazole cream because its an over the counter item you can use to treat the yeast infection. If it doesn't help, then it's time to see a doctor and you'd want to tell your Mom, as embarassing as it might be to you. Imagine having only a Dad. So talking to Mom should help with her getting you in to see a Dr. These days, if any exam needs to be done, then a female nurse will be in the room, or perhaps they would allow your Mom. This is a precaution so women can't be sexually abused by a dr. or a woman making a false claim for the heck of it. As yeast is fairly common, this is why the cream is so readily available. If there is some of the cream already at home that your Mom or sister have used, don't just use the rest up, let someone know you need it. Oh, and just in case you are afraid to say anything thinking people might believe you had sex and thats why you have it, that is not true. I had someone ask that once.
Here's info from the net: A man can give a woman a yeast infection through sex, but having sex with a man who has a yeast infection doesn’t always lead to infection for his partner. Around 75% of women will develop at least one vaginal yeast infection in their lifetimes. If a man has it, likely he's uncircumsized, doesn't clean well down there and a few other reasons. My husband has never had yeast infection...I believe it tends to be a more rare event.
Personally, in all my life, I have never heard from any female who talks openly, where she got it from sex with a partner and I have not. What is more common in women is to get UTI's from having sex. The reason is that any body fluids are oozing around on the outside and the hole for your pee is in the same area, too close to the vagina and clit so your or his fluids could be rubbed onto the pee hole. So the best habit you can develop when you do have a partner when older is to go empty your bladder after having sex, as that usually washes away the germs before they have a chance to infect. If you smell an off odor, then its some kind of infection and could be yeast or something else easily treatable. In the meanwhile, get the battery run toothbrush, clean it well after use. One thing we forget is that having clean hands, fingers, nails are just as important because even though a person may wash their hands, germs will linger easily with a washing, around the nail bed and under it. So you might want to buy a nail brush to use in cleaning well around finger nails so you don't give yourself germs from your fingers. good luck.
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