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Vibrator
I wanna buy a vibrator but I'm 15 and i dont wanna get carded so where do i go?
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I heaerd the following from a writer who wrote in, after not being able to get any vibrator, knowing no one who would help, she resorted to trying a battery run toothbrush. Yes, you read that correctly. Although its not for insertion like a dildo. This can be used on your clit. You may not want to use bristles side but the back side of end of toothbrush. It vibrates hard enough to give a clitoral orgasm. I know, I've tried it. Anyone can buy a toothbrush, so it's not embarrassing as no one will know what you plan to do with it. Its something for now until you can get someone to go into a shop and get you something. I have found over time that how much you spend on one doesnt mean its better. I have had some of my best toys be the ones cheaper, or on sale.
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Do you know an adult female who you can confide in that could purchase one for you? That's your best bet. It wouldn't shock them because statistically everyone masturbates. It's normal and nothing to be embarrassed over talking about or doing.
This person would be able to get you one. Believe me most parents would rather have this issue than one where you are having actual sex and being pregnant. These days even Amazon sells them on their site and made a fortune during COVID from adults and college students so says the articles on that.
The problem you have is that sex stores cannot sell pornography which they all do in a place where there are people under 18. It's about them getting busted for doing so. Also, it's because it's labelled "sex toy" and not "novelty item"
That's a big distinction as it's what has allowed Spencer's Gifts to show them in the open for anyone to see. They haven't carded in the past and I'm not sure about now. There was a ton of controversy about them selling to anyone who walked in without carding a year ago but they've managed to get around the you must be 18 for years.
The other thing here is that you don't need to purchase what is labelled as a sex toy or vibrator because products such as massagers etc do the same thing so that's one way around someone asking you for ID.
The benefit if you are an adult of a sex store is that the staff won't judge you over anything and know that people are embarrased. They give you time to look around and ask questions or they will approach and offer help. They can make sure you're getting a product that you feel comfortable using and purchasing.
I would talk to an adult female you trust and mention this is an issue and you can't get one on your own. See if they can help or make a purchase with a credit card.
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