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Is my friend flirting with me?
So this girl and I are both 18, first-year university students. Last night we're all playing pool, 3v3 and the girl specifically asks to be on my team. We're friends, but not too much outside of this friend group.
Then it just felt like whenever it was her turn, she'd be asking me for advice really enthusiastically, despite the fact that the other guy on our team is objectively better than me. Anyway, she just seemed to be super bubbly whenever asking me what to do for her shot and stuff like that. Eventually it's the other guy who ends up winning the game for us, but she ends up running over and hugging *me* instead, which felt like an overreactive measure to begin with, just grabbing my waist a few separate times.
It sort of feels like a signal to me but I'm not sure.
Another note: a few days later, she randomly came into my dorm room without asking (which I was fine with), asked said that she just totally forgot this was where I lived (a few of her friends live close by to me) and then asked if I heard her singing down the hall, because it would be "really embarrassing" or something if I did.
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There is body lqnguage and actions all people take when interested in someone. I can tell you a few and then keep looking for more confirmation because if the other guy is a better player and won but she asked you for tips and the enthusiatic congrat hugs, it sure sounds like she is trying to be obvious she is interested. HoweVER i Would look for more clues first. One thing a person does is find excuses to be near a person, within their personal space which is about an arm length away. If you step away to recreate space, it means you are not so interested in her but if you keep your spot and allow her near, it is aign to her that you are interested. So try this in reverse, walking into her personal space for a good reason to see if she stays put or moves backweards to recreate that space.
An interested person will lean forward towards you when talking. They will also point their feet subconsciously towards you wether standing or sitting.
Females tend to flip their hair back and expose their neck to a guy if she likes what she sees, but that again is a subconscious move. You can find more if you look on youtube for body language when a female is interested. I have watched these in the past but haven't in a while. It is good though to actually view this body language pointed out and watching it happening.
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