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Old Friends
I am from Cuba
So I'm currently eleven and i just started middle school 5 weeks ago. I had a friend in the beginning of 5th grade last year who was really sweet and nice. We grew apart and i'm friends with one of her other friends. She's popular now and really nice but I just don't know how to go about being friends with her again. I don't want to seem too pushy. How should I do this?
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Think back to last year then and what you had in common. Those are good things to invite her to hang out with you to do together. If the reason you grew apart is that you had little in common, then its not going to work well if the friends she has now are better suited for her. If you think you only want to be considered her friend because she is popular now, thats not a good enough reason to be friends.
If you are sure you want to try for starting up your friendship again, then just walk up to her, greet her by name and ask how she has been doing Then ask her to hang out with you doing something she used to like. She may have changed and have different interests. At this age thru college even, a person changes interests and matures in areas so you'd have to find out by asking what things she is into now, like favorite movies, favorite music/bands and so on.
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