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My ex boyfriend
Hi. Guys I am looking for some advice and help. My ex boyfriend and me where together for a long time we have a daughter together and his family didn't want to know her until I got DNA test then the accepted her into there family when she was 6
So it cause alot hurt and bad feeling between us then he meet someone ended getting married to her she dosen't even want to talk to me even doe I never ever meet her or spoke to the girl. I love him alot and still care about but hate they way things are between us and like to see if I could change that and now with him moving to the usa I want to know what should I do should have a talk with him sort things out clear the air? or should I just leave it as it is?
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There is no need to talk to him if there is legal documentation about you having full custody of her. If there is legal court appointed shared custody, and in the U.S. you can't move away to somewhere the ex doesn't have opportunity to see the child, then there could be problems. If this is just verbal agreement, and he has shown no interest in her, you may be okay but it might be better to have that DNA result test and talk to a lawyer to make sure you are protected as legal guardian and he has no claim on her. This would all of course need contacting him so the lawyer could talk to him as well and his signature signing away his rights to her.
In a day and age when there are so many couples having trouble conceiving, what if he and the wife can't have kids and either they adopt or if he's really wanting a kid and already has one with you, without documentation that he has given up his rights, this could be a mess down the road with him fighting for custody and it would look better on paper that there is two parents, rather than one meaning just you. You can't predict the future that you won't be married to someone, so this is what I think is most important for you to think about.Of course I am explaining this the way it is in the U.S. and I have no idea what country you are in and what the laws are concerning a child between two married or unmarried people who split up. That is what you will have to check on first and ask your family and get their advice as well before contacting a lawyer.
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