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I like my friend but I’m confused about how he feels
I’ll try and keep this quick. What does cuddling mean to you and especially guys because I’ve had this good guy friend for almost 2 years and I recently started liking him about 2 months ago. I always thought he kinda liked me but I especially thought this when our other (female) friend didn’t come to school. So he invited me to hang out at his house and basically he laid on my lap, boob, played fight,cuddled with me, got on top of me and I think he tried to kiss me but I’m still not sure and when our other female friend he declined it twice. Now I know this would obviously make you think he likes me but I’ve gone out my way to show him I like him and nothings really happened between us since that day over a month ago. I wanna tell him I like him but what if I read that day wrong and he was only cuddling with me as a friend because I know a lot of guys just cuddle with females as friends and see it as nothing more. I feel like I’m losing him as a friend what should I do and what do you think that day meant? Is there anything I should look for in him that would tell me if he likes me for sure because I don’t wanna make another move unless I’m certain.
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There are different kinds of male friends as I see it. There are ones who don't get too close body contact wise, wrestling, cuddling,etc. because they see you more like a sister or female relative and they can curb willpower to not do anything more but the penis has a mind of its own. It can react for some guys even if they don't have that kind of chemistry with you. Its like willing yourself not to keep hiccuping, you are going to anyways. So they have no desire to treat you as a possible love interest. Then there are others, the ones who may have admired you and felt drawn to you romantically but were not brave enough or like yourself, had no idea how to move the relationship from friends to more than friends.
Its easy if you are already friends. You simply say, Since we are doing so well as friends, I was just wondering how well we'd do as more than friends. What do you think? This means he has to say, Nope it wouldn't work because I don't have those kinds of feelings for you. But if he did he either admits it then or says, yeah, lets try dating and see. At which point he would feel it okay to make his move and do more than cuddle and actually kiss or more.
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