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What does this mean "What does this mean "You’re unhappy cause you..."


Question Posted Saturday November 3 2018, 8:30 pm

What does this mean "You’re unhappy cause you are not realistic relative to the life you chose."

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Dragonflymagic answered Monday November 5 2018, 9:13 pm:
To me, 'relative to' is the same as 'because of.'
So someone is telling you that you are unhappy because of the life you chose. Being unrealistic about it may simply mean that you are not seeing the connection that you have caused your own unhappiness because of choices you made. Of course all adults make choices during their life that were not the best and then they have to change things rather than stay in that spot without any changes and continue to suffer unhappiness. Not being realistic is not seeing the truth of something even if right before your eyes, because your mind is saying something else, trying to convince you of something else that may not be something that in any way is possible. Another word for it would be 'pipe dream'. A 'pipe dream' is an unrealistic hope or fantasy.

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