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Please reply asap: Am I Pregnant or Paranoid?
Alright. So I'm not a big fan of having sex because I'm always paranoid and say to myself maybe I'm not ready for sex since I'm always paranoid of the consequences. You may think I'm crazy but I am almost in my thirties.
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Please reply and I'm full of anxiety.
I had sex with a friend and we were barely at it.
I told him it didn't feel right and we were going at it for a little while.
I made him use a condom. He stopped and I was super paranoid. He said he didn't cum but that doesn't mean anything.
I'm super nervous. We didn't go for a long time and stopped probably within 5 minutes or not even 5 minutes.
I'm pretty sure he didn't break it and he said he didn't.
Am I pregnant? Should I get a test?
Maybe I'm just freaking out! This is why I can't have intercourse bc I get scared everytime.
He didn't cum and had a condom on plus he was barely in that long
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The question I need to know is whether you are so scared because of a fear of getting pregnant or whether you simply don't feel ready to have sex or the partner just isn't one who you feel very naturally aroused by, like just being near him and kissing. IF you simply want to experience sex for the first time, picking just any cute guy will not work. Most people who did this...I have heard from many adults... these people do not have good memories of their first time for the reason it was the wrong person.
You don't have to have sex by a certain age, simply cus everyone else did it early. I never did in school. I had sex at 20 and all my daughters followed my example. Some didn't until 21, or 22. Even then, we really aren't all that comfortable with our own sexuality and sex in general. I couldn't even say the word sex when I was 20 and not when I was married in the early years.
Are you pregnant? Likely not. It is more likely that your period is delayed from the stress of worry and not having felt ready to do it. Even if you are way older but this is a new partner, that is scary enough to learn a new partner because no two are exactly the same. Trust me, I know for sure.
About periods delayed: Many things will delay it that are not connected at all to pregnancy. It is either mental stress or physical stress. So worry, dealing with a really bad string of days, starting to get sick, or being sick, having any other physical stress to the body like too much exercise like female athletes who work out and practice every day, all these things will delay a period. And in the case of female athletes, the cycle can even stop completely. There is one more thing that affects the female cycle and that is being consistantly around a lot of other women who menstruate. This would be like working in a small office of only females or having mom and sisters who have periods. Here's the wiki explanation:
He said he didn't cum so without cum that contain sperm, you can't be pregnant . . . unless . . .
there was foreplay, before he put the condom on, in which he was fingering you and he was also undressed and hard and the anticipation of sex in males will release a little of his liquid at the tip of his penis. This may not contain as much sperm as when he ejaculates but will contain some.
So if at any time he touched himself there, got some of his fluid on his fingers and immediately touched you anywhere near the entrance to the vagina, theres a chance a sperm survived to swim in. Sperm can't last outside the body long, so it would pretty much have to have been transferred right to the entrance of the vagina or inside by being on his fingers. Even then, with the lower count, and the possibility the female wasn't ovulating or near the time of ovulation for the sperm to survive long enough to meet her egg a few days later, then there is so very little chance. If you want to be sure, take a pregnancy test. If you decide to keep trying for sex even though you are too nervous about it, I predict your cycle will be delayed every time because of the stress of your worry and in that case, you;d better stock up on pregnancy tests.
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