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Why do people hate chokers so much? Why do they say it's trashy?


Question Posted Sunday October 8 2017, 11:18 am

I think they're no different than a necklace. You can see them being sold at places like forever 21, where teens shop. My cousin wanted one, but her parent said it's too adult. Even comparing it to being a slave or calling a dog collar.

Why do they have such bad rep?


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Dragonflymagic answered Monday October 9 2017, 9:34 pm:
Beats me, have no idea. When I was a teen and in my twenties, I wore chokers all the time, even to church. It was considered a regular piece of jewelry with no strange connotation attached to it.

All I know is that fashion trend change with the decades, and it takes a strong person to stay with the fashion they like to wear, even if its not popular or has an alternate bad reputation now. I've noticed that chokers are hard to find now.

I know friend or a friend who asked me since I am a crafty person if she could get some ideas how to make her own. She happens to be baby girl to a 'daddy' figure and wanted to wear them to signify she was his.

If you choose to wear one, you may have to field questions of whether you are a sub in a sub and dom relationship, or if you are just trying to look trashy or slutty. And if you like them enough to wear, then you'd have to let comments not affect you like water rolling off a ducks back.

There really is no logical reason hon. Once upon a time, the thin anorexic looking fashion model look was IN, if you can believe that. Her name was Twiggy because of how she looked. Now a days, if you look that thin, someone will rush you to a doctor to get psychological counseling. Trends just change for no real logical reasons

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