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Am i pregnant? Period 14 days late


Question Posted Saturday September 2 2017, 9:39 am

I had sex with my bf on 11th and 12th of august
We had it twice on 11th in which he didnt cum and once on 12th in which he came. We used condoms. On 12th we used 2 condoms. Just to be safe. We replaced the condom and used the second one. He is sure that he checked all the condoms. None of them broke. I had viral fever the week before i had sex. Because of which my hemoglobin reduced(not much) and my platelets also dropped. My hemoglobin came back to normal. But on 11th my platelets were still low. My periods are usually late by 3-4 days. Sometimes they're even 10-11 days late. But this time they're 14 days late. And on 14 15 16 i had slippery vaginal discharge. Like it is during ovulation. But this time it was bit oily. I dont have any pregnancy symptoms. Am i pregnant? I'm really scared. Please help.


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Dragonflymagic answered Thursday September 7 2017, 7:10 pm:
You mentioned viral fever the week before. Thats what caused the disruption of your cycle. Stress, either mental from worry, bullying, etc will cause the cycle to be off and physical stress of just getting over sickness or just starting to get sick, will also throw it off. Lots of energy goes into your cycle each month. When the body is experiencing stress, the energy that goes into supporting a cycle will go instead into the body trying to heal and get better. Any discharge will likely be close to the same as the natural cleansing your body does all the days you do not have a period. You can expect to see this kind of discharge all the time and its normal. When a period is delayed greatly, or real late, you may get a brownish discharge like half dried blook but not much, just a little you see when wiping or spots on panty or liner. This is also not to worry about as the body occasionally does this when a period is late and preceeds the start of the flow.

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adviceman49 answered Saturday September 2 2017, 10:48 am:
Your probably not pregnant and there are many different reasons why women miss there periods. One of the biggest is illness. You had a viral fever that upset you natural balance this can cause your period to be late or missed all together.

Illness coupled with stress over if you could be pregnant is another reason for missing a period. If being ill wasn't bad enough stress alone can throw off your menstrual cycle causing you to be late or miss a periods altogether. More women miss periods over stress of being pregnant then women who are actually pregnant. That slippery vaginal discharge may be the only form of a period you might get this month.

The only way to tell for sure is to take a home pregnancy test. As long as you are over 14 there is no reason it can't be sold to you by law. If you are a teenager read the package directions to see if you do have to take the test with your first pee in the morning. IF you don't then take the test kit to school and take it there discarding the package and kit in the ladies room. If you do have to test first in the morning take the kit into the bathroom when you take your morning shower. Carefully open the package, take the test then put everything back in the package and back in your hand bag or what ever you hid it in and take it to school to discard.

Should you get a positive result don't panic. These kits give more false positives that then anything else. wait another 5 days and test again.

FYI: Just because you boyfriend did not ejaculate does not mean he did not emit any ejaculate during intercourse. Just like you get wet to lubricate the male emits an ejaculate during intercourse that he does not feel or control. There is enough sperm in the ejaculate to impregnate.

While I honestly do not feel you pregnant and that being sick and stress is the cause of your missed period. Should I be wrong and you are pregnant the one time you had unprotected sex with him even though he did not ejaculate is how you got pregnant.

As I said I don't believe you a re pregnant so in the future no condom, no sex. Oh and in the future just one condom per intercourse is needed. Using two at a time actual increases the chances the condom with break.

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