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Scared that I may be pregnant
So I started taking birth control on the 2nd of this month. On my fifth day of taking it my boyfriend and I were messing around, I was on top and I almost slid his dick in my vagina all the way. He was not wearing a condom, and I got off after a few seconds when it started to hurt too much. And I started bleeding, it was my first time really having a penis in there. He also rubbed the head of his penis in my vagina for a little bit before that. I have been freaking out since. I've read that pre-cum can contain low amounts of sperm, and that it can contain it if the guy ejaculated not too long before and did not urinate since. We weren't doing stuff for too long and I do not believe he ejaculated before that happened. Now it is my 12th day of taking birth control, a week after that happened and I have some light spotting. I heard this is very common for women who recently started taking birth control, but I also read that there is a such thing as implantation blood. It said that implantation blood is brownish/pinkish and it seems like that's what color mine is but I can't even tell because its not heavy enough and I'm freaking out. Also not sure if anyone believes in signs but I've been freaking out about this today, well more than usual I guess because of the spotting. And then I go on fb and my friend tagged me in a "names of girls that will have triplets in 2018" and my name was on it and I saw the post at the 10:27, and 27 is a number that has always been like a warning or sign to my friend and I and I know that sounds stupid but I'm just scared. Is there a big chance I'm pregnant? I'm only 19, my bfs 20. I'm still in school, and he's freaking homeless as of rn. My mom told me whatever I do, do NOT get pregnant and that is why she put me on this birth control (LoEstrin FE). and now I'm already fucking up. I was supposed to wait two and half weeks to let the birth control kick in but I did stuff only five days after. I have no idea what to do. I don't even want to take a pregnancy test yet because its just going to stress me out even more, and what if it is not even accurate? Ah sorry I'm ranting. anyway thank you for whoever takes the time to read this and please help!
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The best way to relieve you anxiety is to take a pregnancy test or see a doctor. Make sure to follow the institutions on the pregnancy test. after that you will feel much better.
I am sure I don't have to tell you this but i will say it anyway. follow the direction on birth control pill that stuff is serous.
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We always think we can defeat fate but whether we do or not, as you now know, theres a lot of worry and knowing in hindsight that we made a bad move. You already know you didn't wait long enough. There's a reason for waiting because the hormones of birth control take some time to build up in you to a collective amount large enough to prevent your getting pregnant. Since you only had 5 days of it, there's a good chance of getting pregnant if he leaked pre cum And if you were close to ovulating at the time. So if its a no to each of those, then you couldn't be pregnant. Here's info from the internet:
If you begin to take Lo Loestrin Fe during the first 24 hours of your period, you do not need to use an extra form of birth control. If you begin to take Lo Loestrin Fe on the Sunday after your period starts, you will need to use an extra form of birth control for 7 days after you start taking Lo Loestrin Fe.
Seeing any blood, could simply be break through bleeding which can happen on the pill, although you weren't on it long enough to start having issues. Maybe you are extra sensitive to it. Your worry alone is enough stress to cause your period to not come easily and be delayed at which point you can easily get that brownish-pink tinged fluid rather than the regular red flow. So you may not be pregnant. A pregnancy test at this point may be too early to give you a good result.
As far as pre cum is concerned, that is referring to any fluid that leaks from the tip of penis when erect and he is excited sexually. It can act as a lubrication in having sex. This is before,, not after cumming. After a guy ejaculates, yes, even then a drop or two can still form on the tip of penis. So wait a bit and then take a pregnancy test.
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