I have been having an extream time trying to have a nice orgasm. I can't seem to have one at all ever. With or without someone. I'll get to the point where I'm all hot sweaty and my body gets all twitchy and I start to breath heavy. Once all this happens I'm done. I don't feel like I have had a great release. Nothing comes out. Any suggestions on how to fix this would be great.
The fact is you are experiencing mild results as you mentioned body twitches which is a form of non-intense release. That's a sign. The problem is you aren't relaxed and are stressing, worrying and pushing and striving for what happens naturally and doesn't all the time. Same with release of bodily fluids.
We cannot say anything bordering on a how to but perhaps if you try different ways of stimulation that it can have better result. See what your body reacts to and how it reacts.
If you are 18+ one thing that could help is visiting an adult novelty store for marital aid and ask the clerk what is well made and might help you as it provides different stimuli and intensity. They get asked everything under the sun so it may help your cause to look into that but the key is to relax and not stress or rush or be tired and let your body react as it does or it's not pleasurable and counter productive. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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