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Question Posted Wednesday April 20 2016, 11:04 am

I was having sex with two different men when I got pregnant here are the details which one do you think is more likely to be the father?

My first day of my last period was feb 10
My cycle is 27days
I had sex with guy a on feb 20&21
I had sex with guy b on feb 25
I took a morning after pill with 3 days after guy a but since I waited so long it was less likely to work j think 70-80%
Guy b said he pulled out but that's up to speculation
Using ovulation calculators they are both possibilities....I think guy a has more possibility.
I understand this will raise unwanted comments towards me. I know I messed up I'm 25 and it was a drunken mishap and I'm aware I can pay to have a prenatal paternity test done.


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johnnylee423 answered Monday April 25 2016, 2:27 am:
Thats tricky, and i hate to be one of those idiots that doesnt really answer your question, but im new here and just wanted to reassure you that you can only be wrong if you were cheating otherwise dont let the fact your a women lead you to belive your not allowed to have fun, most guys are just insecure and the other girls can be jelous, society is wrong about alot and has been the entire time just be as careful as you can, and again im really sorry for this i just wanted to have this in response just in case someone were to perpetrate Some nastyness i didnt approve of, you have every reason to hate me for wasting your time like this and i am sorry i know this didnt answer your question but within the perameters that youve set its in fates hands cause as im sure youre well aware its much too close to call, but even still please let me know if anyone does or says anything mean, i do enjoy finding villians, they always seem to elude me, sorry again for my selfish blathering, it really is inexcusable.

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adviceman49 answered Thursday April 21 2016, 10:24 am:
Based on the fact that most women ovulate between the first and twenty-first day of their cycle the first guy is most likely the father. The fact that you took the plan B pill throws a curve into this theory as the pill is about 80& effective at the time you took it. Guy B is just a hair outside the theory window but is possible depending on just which day you ovulated.

The only recommendation is to have paternity test done with both men once the baby is born.

NOTE: The pullout of birth control is the least effective form. Even if he did pull out the precum he emits during intercourse has enough semen in it to impregnate a woman. Therefore even if he did pull out he is still a candidate for the father of the baby.

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Razhie answered Thursday April 21 2016, 7:41 am:
So closely togeather, it's really impossible to tell. It may be slightly more likely that the father is the first man you slept with, but there is really just no way to know with any certainty.

I think you are going to have to do a paternity test before you will have any assurances.

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RemmyA answered Wednesday April 20 2016, 1:46 pm:
Its really hard to tell because you had sex with both of them around the same time you're supposed to be ovulating, but it's probably the 1st guy, because you had sex with him twice and you are supposed to take the emergency contraceptive within 72 hours not after. So he is a safe bet but it wouldn't hurt to get the paternity test done. I really hope it works out. No judgements here, you messed up, it happens to best of us.

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