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am i pregnant?
the following happened on 30th jan, me and my guy were naked. his penis was near my vagina. i have never had sex. so i dont allow him to insert his penis in my vagina. he was just touching my vagina with his penis. not totally near my vaginal opening but near the inner thigh and on my belly and he touched once above the clit. in between i was giving him blowjob and he was fingering me too. he came at the end when we were all done. i got my period (atleast i think it was) on 21st february. my period usually lasts for 6 days but this time it lasted for only 4 days. it was red and heavy but not that heavy too. in march i got my period on 31st and it lasted for 5 days. first day i had dark brown colored flow and the flow was less. on second day i had bright red colored flow and it wasnt too less or too heavy but definitely a little less than the flow that i usually have on the second day.
and both the times i didnt have cramps also like i usually do have. no nausea, no breast tenderness nothing. only from past two days im feeling very hungry. yesterday i had leg pain and i feel some discomfort in tummy. apart from that nothing else. am i pregnant? or its just my hormones? please help.
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Stop fooling around with this boy. You are going to fool around into an early grave with all the stress you are putting on yourself. You aren't pregnant. Brown blood is old blood that did not come out with the last period. Your period changes flow wise based on your mood and eating patterns and stress level. So just take a deep breath. You are not pregnant.
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You have had two periods since the event you talk about. There is no way you can be pregnant if you have had two periods.
A period is your womb cleansing itself of its lining and preparing itself for the next egg to be fertilized and the egg to attach itself to the wall of your womb to grow. You have had two periods, two linings have been shed there is no embryo attached therefore you cannot be pregnant.
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You are almost certainly not pregnant.
You are almost certainly, hypersensitive and stressed, and paying unusually close attention to your period.
Relaxing is probably the kindest thing you can do for your body.
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If you are having periods, then you are not pregnant. Any changes you see as to when a period starts and ends, any differences in flow or color are all a part of the experience of having periods. This information isn't even covered in the basics one gets in health class if you still have that in school. I will share info now but suggest you start studying on your own to find out as much little but important details on everything, periods, proper way to keep clean, everything you need to know about the hymen, birth control, etc... Theres a lot of info to learn.
Womens periods if delayed can start out brownish but will change to a red flow once it gets going. A period if lighter one month can start or end with just a pink tinged flow. This is all normal.
What will delay a period is your body regulating to start the same time as other women you are around on a daily basis, being ill or recently ill, stress and worrying. 'll bet you've been worrying since Jan 30th and that worry was enough to make the next period start slower and start brown tinged. I didn't always have cramps as a younger person but got them often enough until after having first kid and then never got them again. Its different for everyone so you can't use cramps as a symptom of something being wrong. However my genecologist always asks two questions or warns me to come in if these are present, a heavy flow that wont stop and pads can't contain, or extreme abdominal pain. And I was asked if I had any pain with sex. So if theres none of that, there's nothing wrong.
If you are a teen, it can take a few years from puberty and onset of ones period for the body to get used to having a regular cycle once a month. So it is also normal to have two smaller periods in one month or within 6 weeks and not have any for a month or two, have shorter or longer periods, heavier or lighter flows. Mine was all over the place but I never worried about being pregnant as I did not even date in HS.
A dollar store pregnancy kit can lay your fears to rest if you still want the extra assurance.
My suggestion is to get on some form of birth control other than relying on condoms. Guys usually don't put one on until ready to enter and if thats not on the plan for that time, then as you know, there's plenty of sex play time where precum with its sperm can get on his or your fingers or transfered to near the vagina by his tip and if you are really wet and there's lots of fluid for the sperm to find to live in until they can travel inside on their own, theres always the slight chance of pregnancy. Even if you don't know whether you'll be having sex regularly, its worth it to be worry free. If you choose not to go this route, remember plan B or also called the morning after pill. Keep in mind that the hormones in birth control or morning after pill can mess with your body as far as giving you the symptoms of pregnancy. YOur own mind can do so simply because its a mind over matter thing and what you focus so much energy on worrying about, your mind will create, like the pregnancy symptoms in your case.
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