Question Posted Thursday February 25 2016, 5:02 am
I'm 30 weeks pregnant. This is my first baby and I unfortunately have been restricted from all activity because I have high blood pressure. Recently I've been so horny and I'm so upset I can't have sex. Is there anything I can do to make it go away or get some pleasure without over exhausting myself?
As far as not having sex at this point in your pregnancy this is normal and may or may not be due to your high blood pressure and more to the position of the baby.
Now what we were allowed to do may have been okay for us so I suggest you check with your doctor before trying what we were allowed to do. First my wife was allowed to masturbate. We were also allowed to make gentle love, foreplay with light fingering and oral licking. As for my sexual needs my wife did what she was comfortable with which was mostly HJ's.
It's tough if you have had an active sex life up until this time. So check with your OB/GYN and find out what sexual activity he or she feels will not harm you or the baby. Don't be embarrassed to talk to the doctor about this. Doctors are human too and they too have sexual needs while they or their wives are pregnant. So they have gone through or will go through what you are now going through. At some point in all pregnancies doctors tell their patients no more sex until 6 weeks after delivery. So talk to your doctor. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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