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** 18+ ** why don't I enjoy fingering myself
When I'm horny I like to masturbate but I've noticed that fingering myself doesn't turn me on like it does for most girls and to get off I use the old " pillow hump " way and it's so much helpful so why isn't fingering getting me off is there something else I should know about 😂😂 idk I know this is weird but I really want to know
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Maybe give some free advice about: Trouble Reaching Orgasm?
Relax your normal. When it comes to sex there are two types of women; vaginal and clitoral. You are most likely a clitoral women one who is sexually stimulated through her clitoris. This means you will need to stimulate your clitoris more during masturbation then through vaginal penetration.
This also means that in order to enjoy sexual intercourse you are going to need to tell your partner you need clitoral stimulation in order to climax. You will need to do this because most of us boys and men know only one way to stimulate a women which is mostly what we have learned watching porn or making out with other women fingering them.
You will also need to find positions in which your clitoris is stimulated more during intercourse. There are many and they can be found by searching the Internet.
You are very lucky to be clitoral as a clitoral orgasm, according to my wife is much more powerful than a vaginal. My wife is both vaginal and clitoral and prefers clitoral stimulation for the orgasm it brings her.
DO NOT USE HOUSEHOLD ITEMS SUCH AS AN ELECTRIC TOOTHBRUSH TO STIMULATE YOUR CLLITORIS AS IT IS NOT MADE FOR THIS. BUY A SEX MAGAZINE OR GO ON THE INTERNET AND BUY A PROPER VIBRATOR.
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That's not weird.
Most women don't reach orgasm from penetration alone. Not with fingers or with a penis, or even with a sex toy. Most women need the clitoris stimulated, and you are probably managing that better with a pillow than with your fingers. That's just fine and perfectly normal. Have fun!
But don't use a toothbrush or foot massager or anything like that! Seriously, if it's not designed to be safe and clean as a sex toy, just don't use it as a sex toy. I know it's tempting when you are young, especially if you are too young to go out and buy a proper, safe to use and easy to clean, vibrator, but this isn't a thing you can DIY at home. A pillow is just dandy for now.
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Well no thats not true, not every female gets off on a pillow hump or fingering. Try getting something that vibrates like a toothbrush with a shirt or thin material over it (for clitoral stimulation only) or a personal back or muscle massager. These are all things no one would automatically suspect would be used as a tool for that. Anything that vibrates. The female clitoris has about 8,000 nerve ending in it from what ive heard and so with enough gentle vibrating, that should be enough to get you off, at least until you could figure out what else to do.
Your body could just be changing and you may need more to get off now then you did before. (its ok and it happens)
good luck
I'd like to add here that Im not TOTALLY backing electric toothbrushes, but ive HEARD that it works amongst women i know so long as the head is covered with a soft fabric like a clean towel. Its simply a little bit of vibration and should not be inserted anywhere and is ONLY meant for outside clitoral stimulation. Minors often are not allowed to just walk into sex stores and buy toys or go online and buy something without someone else finding out. So i understand in that aspect. If anything here is to be used it should be clean and covered with a soft cloth first. Ive tried massagers and those work fine.
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