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STD,HIV
Morning,I am really worried because I almost had sex with my girlfriend my like five or six months ago but wen I tried to have sex with her my penis didn't go through at first but I think on my 2nd trial that same day I tink it went half way in buh it was really tight..so I stopped especially since I wasn't having condom with me...so she rubbed my penis for like five to ten minutes before I ejaculated... That happened on oct9 now it's feb13 I having worried if I have contacted any form of std especially HIV but I haven't really had any symptoms of any std...I and my girlfriend went to the same school for 6six years buh neva noticed a sign of STDs.. She is always.Active even compared to other girls in fact she really loves playing basketball with boys she doesn't fall sick in school or anything... Her period do come regularly... She isn't thin or any thing in fact she has a good physique... I myself haven't loosed any weight...I have had any fever to last upto a week since,no temperature,no chronic Fatigue,nd I used have night sweats we came together due to d amount of heat in room at night...but since after we almost had sex I haven't really experience any form of night sweats,I don't have lesion in my mouth or tongue,no rashes, no real pain,excepr I used to masturbate very frequently maybe like thrice in a day everyday so i do suffer back pain...no blurr vision buh its simples I have a swollen lymph nodes on my neck...i have no easy acess to any form test nd dat incident was the first and only time i tried to engage in sex...we do kiss a lot e.t.c,please advice me on this situation
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I am guessing that you are very young and therefore embarrassed to go about obtaining information on STDs and HIV, the signs, symptoms, or how to prevent getting it. There is lots of good info on the web but I know that some Planned Parenthood facilities have programs/classes geared for teens to teach them sex education and all that goes with it, such as knowledge about STD's, birth control and lots of other real facts that are important.
They are also a good source to seek help with getting a checkup for anything regarding ones reproductive system, whether they hold classes for teens or not. Just so you know, the most common and easiest to catch STD I know of is Herpes, both oral and genital. In testing for STD's, testing for the herpes virus is not done unless asked for because so many people have it that its not worth checking for. Many who have not tested for it assume they are not a carrier for herpes, simply because they have never had an outbreak. A person can be a carrier and never have an outbreak. This is something you are at greater risk for as a human your entire sex life with whoever other partners you will have.So if a person does not understand herpes, and how it is actually contracted, not just the basic of kissing or having sex, then one could easily pass it on. Open sores are obvious and very painful so a person having a breakout is not likely to want to engage in sex or even kissing for the oral version of herpes. But the virus lays dormant at the base of nerve ending in the area where it was originally contracted, and when your immune system is low, due to other illnesses or extreme stress, the virus travels to the surface of the skin. Its invisible to the human eye but you can transfer it with your own hands from one spot of the body to another or another persons skin coming into contact can contract it. The only sign some people may have that the virus is on the surface of the skin is that the area feels sensitive to the touch. think of the irritation elastic may have, or even cloth rubbing repeatedly against one spot on you. The skin feels tender, sore but is not broken or blistered yet. That is the time when it is so easily passed on and why so great a percent of society has it but doesnt even know it. Young kids aren't going to go get a herpes virus test. so theres no way to know if she is a carrier and you've contracted even just the oral version from kissing. My mother had those tell tale cold sores and never kissed her children when she had the sores, but I suspect she passed on the virus by kisses when she had that day or so before the visual outbreak where she still felt fine as I am a carrier. However I went my whole life with no outbreak until the stress of a divorce. Since I am not a stressful person by nature, I rarely have outbreaks, but I know how easy it is to pass around. However swollen lymph glands and fever is not symptoms of herpes. It sounds like a plain common cold or flu virus.
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What exactly is your question then????? If you don't have any symptoms and she doesn't have it that you know of why would you think you have HIV?
How old are you??
No offense but nothing you said really makes sense if your worried about it, go see a doctor but honestly I don't see why you would be worried about it
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