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i think im pregnant . it was 5 days since im missed my periods


Question Posted Saturday August 15 2015, 4:02 pm

Hi im mia from Dubai I'm 27 yrs old Can I get pregnant if we both release? Me and my boyfriend sex last month and my period should come this August 10 but until now I don't have it . He think when I go to pee i will not get pregnant he come three times and I come also. How big is the possibility to get pregnant ? But I drink oral contraceptives after two days having sex and its my first time to try thank you I need some advice

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missundersmock answered Tuesday August 18 2015, 6:20 am:
Yup, your probly pregnant. Your in the prime of your life, your most likely fertile, and you both used ZERO protection. To be blunt here it doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure this out. Not trying to be mean but ANYTIME a male releases in you, you have to know that (unless a doctor has told you otherwise) you CAN get pregnant. People get pregnant even from PRE-ejaculation, ok. and thats the stuff that can come out and HE may not even realize it!

You need to insist on there being protection for YOUR safety because YOUR the woman here. YOUR the one thats going to have to carry this baby (should you choose to) put in nine months of what could be extreme discomfort, ruin your body, and then be tied down for 18 years to raise a small human being that needs you for EVERYTHING.

trust me, i had my son at 25 and i was a model ok. Being pregnant caused me to develop a now life long seizure disorder that i have to take meds for everyday for the rest of my life, my pregnant was high risk, i was on doctor ordered bed rest for the last 4 months of my pregnancy and had my drivers lic. pulled because i couldnt come to terms with the fact that i now have this disorder and i drove around outside when i shouldnt have and almost crashed my car through the front of a subway resturant nearly killing myself and four others and my baby.

so you need to think about how your life can change once you do allow yourself to become pregnant. This is real life, its not going to be easy or fair, and people can also change alot afterwards.

I dont want to come off mean, i just feel like at your age you should be more informed about this by now and knowing that this is the kind of stuff that could happen. i want to encourage people to make informed decisions.

good luck

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adviceman49 answered Sunday August 16 2015, 10:07 am:
The chances are high that you are pregnant if you had sex during the 14 days that the possibility of conception is high during your cycle. This is the middle 14 days between periods on a 28 day cycle for about 85% of women.

If you are not on birth control and did not use a condom while having sex during this period then you may have conceived a child. It is during this time of each month that most women will ovulate and eject an egg for fertilization.

You say you drank oral contraceptives 2 days after you had sex. Unless this was what we call the Plan B Pill it probably was not a high enough dosage to cause a disruption in the pregnancy.

There is also a high probability that your period is late because of stress. You being worried that you are pregnant is enough stress to cause a missed period. More women miss periods over stress than actually being pregnant.

What I suggest is if it is possible to get a home pregnancy test that you do so and follow the directions for testing. Should it come out positive wait ten days and test again as these kits are prone to false positives if you test too early. should the second test be positive then you need to see a doctor for a medical test.

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