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Um okay... I'm 13 years old. I was on omegle and I saw this guy I liked. I was with my younger friend so I flashed him My bra and stuff... but my friend recorded me changing. So like he said... he would put me on a porn sight if I didn't pose for him nude. Scared I did it, then he wanted my friend to do it so I quit out of I. I'm so so scared.
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Lmao wtf thas retard Buffon to worry bout Not like he can find u
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Technically, for legal reasons, your friend who recorded you couldn't put you on a porn site because child pornography is illegal in all fifty states. Both the owner of the media (your friend) and the viewer (somebody who watches it online) would be prosecuted. My advice to you is that sites like Omegle or Chatroulette are unsafe because anybody can use them, and that includes pedophiles (child molesters). Since you are saying that you're 13 years old, I would suggest not flashing anybody else, or flirting with others in front of your friends.
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The fact you believed his threat proves the same thing I now know of my teen years....at the age, we're all too gullible and will believe anything, we're easily scared or bullied into doing something we really don't want, we have low self image, and we're very prone to doing stupid things. Guess what...all teens suffer from these things to some degree and its all because the frontal lobe of our brain, responsible for making good decisions and judgement calls on people, is a part of brain not yet mature. It wont be until your mid 20s. So next time, I suggest you think twice before taking an action....never never do something on the spur of the moment. Stop doing impulse things. Your flashing yourself in underwear or more, was an impulse thing. You didn't take the time to think ahead of what could possibly happen. Its like trying to solve a problem before the problem happens. If you are ever not sure, find an adult you trust to bounce your ideas, thoughts or problems off of. You've written us after the fact. Now the best thing is to seek advice next time, before taking action. If you cant think of what might possibly go wrong with your plan, you can ask friends opinions, but brain development wise, they're in same boat as you. Its best talking to an adult or parents.
Realistically, no guy is going to want to go to a porn site to view a teen in their underwear. that is as much coverage as you wear on the beach and is not porn. Although, with the web, it is too easy for someone to steal any photo of yourself you place on the web, fully clothed...take your head and attach it with photoshop to a nude body to post. So there is a small amount of danger with anything we send someone via electronic means. This teen guy is just plain old horny...something many teen boys suffer from and it causes them to seek relief. Usually the last thing they'll want to try is masturbation alone. They are happier masturbating to a photo of a girl whether in playboy or something they find on the internet, or along to live camming, or porn videos. Others try for the real thing, wanting to find a way to convince a girl to have sex with them. You are at a dangerous stage and guys know its too easy to fool a girl. Either scare her into giving photos or having sex with him, or lure her into being willing by pretending he loves you and telling you he loves you. Some are willing to wait and play this game and make it very convincing. Once they got the sex, they dump you. Or they start a collection of girls so they can have one for every night.
You are going to need sound advice on a daily basis dear. Sometimes it may be as simple as, "What did that guy mean when he said....." Both Mom and Dad are the closest to you, and the fastest to reach for input. You may be embarrassed at first but push thru it and start asking for their opinion on things. Dad was once a boy and can help you better than any other guy as to what guys mean, what they might really be doing. I went often to my own Dad for clarification and found it helpful in my teen years. I even told him about guys I was crushing on. Parents were there once and should understand, unless they;re really prudes and sex topic phobic.
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