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Question Posted Wednesday April 22 2015, 12:31 am

my girlfriend and I are 17 years old. yesterday I inserted my finger inside her and there was bit of cum on my finger.
which was dried. can she get pregnant.? she is still a virgin


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Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday April 22 2015, 4:14 pm:
If you are also a female, then there was no possibility of sperm in the equation and she's not pregnant.
If you are male, and you were naked and had pre cum on the tip of penis and touched and got precum (which has sperms in it) on your finger before inserting it, then yes, she could become pregnant.

If the fluid was already dry, the sperm can't live with wetness and would already be dead.
However, as a caregiver, in training we were asked to wash our hands thoroughly and then shown what we missed under a black light in a bathroom. Everyone had germs hiding along the edges of the cuticles and under the nails. I would suppose that any lingering moisture enough to sustain a couple active sperm could have been present still in those areas even if your skin on finger was dry. This is how so many teen girls who are still virgins and not on birth control get pregnant, cus condoms only help once on the penis and theres plenty of time when it is not and precum gets her pregnant.

It takes a fertilized egg a while, up to a week to attach to uterus where at that point a pregnancy test can pick up the signs. So the best thing if you're not 100% sure there may not have been live sperm present, is for her to purchase the morning after pill, emergency contraception and take one. But they only work if used within a couple days after the event. So today she should get that. Before next time, if you intend to continue having sex, she needs to get on birth control, either through family doctor or see the local Planned Parenthood for that and they do give birth control to teens. and its kept confidential so Parents won't be told.

I woould also advise you and her to spend some time reading up on every subject of a sexual nature. It isn't taught in many schools any more, or very little taught and you're not the only teen to not have a teen. I see hundreds of them write what I would consider to be easy, commom sense knowledge (and may get you a rude answer or two in life if you ask-because of it.) I know its simply lack of knowledge and not stupidity. What it going to be stupid, is if you and her don't do the adult thing and choose to self train yourselves on anything and everything sexual.
A good place to start might be a youtube blog done by Laci Green who started her own quest for knowledge at your age and started a video blog on what she found, She's about 25 or so now and very well known. She's worked making videos for Planned Parenthood even. so she does get her facts straight, provides the info in funny entertaining short videos average 4-5 minutes in length or less. But a very valuable place to start. there's much more on youtube that is good but you nee to search for it, Study both anatomys closely as the science world has learned more of the female anatomy that wasn't known before.
Good luck.

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avatarthird answered Wednesday April 22 2015, 12:54 pm:
Yes, she can get pregnant and spawn babies with nails for heads :-) Happy father's day Tom Thumb.

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