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I don't know who the father is!
I recently had sex with a guy on Jnauary 17th, he came inside me. My period ended on the 9thof Jnauary, not too sure when I ovulated. A week later on the 26th of January I had sex with my ex, he came inside me as well. I took a pregnancy test on Saturday the 7th of February because my period was late & it came out positive & it was one of those clear blue ones that tell you how many weeks since ovulation. It said 1-2 weeks, im working things out with my ex & I really hope it's his! Please give me advice on WHOS baby you think it is?
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yup, come clean with your ex if your really want things to work out. thats the only way. Technically you wernt together and if you wernt sure if you would ever get BACK together then its kind of not your fault. On the other hand you shouldnt just let guys nut in you, your basically asking for STD's.
on birth control or using a condom is the only what the above should be happening. Also being a long term serious relationship is best because if you get tested and lets say HES cheated on YOU, the test will show you proof of that by the test if you got tested before and didnt have anything and now you do see? so there are many benefits to being in a long term situation.
I hope that it works out for you, but as a female being promiscuous is not going to work out to your benefit trust me. Things like this continue to happen when females mess around, especially without protection. TRUE using protection works but theres still a risk of failure so why risk it??
good luck sweetie ; )
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The ovulation period occurs sometime usually within the second and third week after you've had your last period. It is most likely that your ex is the baby's daddy according to the time frame. Although you shouldn't totally rule out that the other random bastard you slept with isn't the baby's daddy either. Because some women can ovulate early and other women can ovulate late. Until your baby is born. You may never know whom the fathers child actually is. The best and 100% way to find out is by having blood tests done to both the baby and the two men that you slept with. In the mean time you have got to be honest with your ex. Especially if your trying to work things out with him. Because most lies can come back at you and bite you in the ass later in life. Relationships require nothing but honesty. Also to make things easier for you next time you get pregnant. Make sure that you are in a properly well balanced and finationally stable relationship with someone that will want to be with you for the rest of your life. Also to avoid further problems like this one, make sure that you use proper repercussions such as condoms and birth control to prevent this kind of shit from happening to you. You shouldn't just want any Tom, Dick, and Harry to just cum inside of you like that. It is both unsanitary and can further complicate things. A good example of what I am talking about. My grandma on my dads side of the family slept with a lot of random men. She whored out herself so much that she didn't really know whom my dads own dad even was. My dad had 5 other siblings whom were in the same boat that my dad was in. Each sibling had a different dad. The bitch would do nothing but lie to all of her kids who their real dads actually were. Two of her children were both from black men and back in that day a half black child was not even remotely acceptable due too so much racial tension. Her two black kids were treated like shit. My dad went to school with his half black brother and had to endure racial tension. They called him a nigger lover all through out school because of his younger half black siblings. Later on in life the two half black siblings grew up to be drug addicts and were in and out of prison. One of my dads siblings did the same thing too her own children, and one of her own children did the same thing to her children. I could go in to more horrible unpleasant details. But nevertheless I think that you get my point. Anyway good luck to you and your unborn child and sorry if I was being a bit too harsh on you. Hope everything turns out good for you.
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First grounds, never let a guy cum inside you, especially if you aren't using contraceptives.
I believe that it probably might be the guy on January 17. Logically speaking the egg takes time to fertilize and your ex's cum cannot compete with something that was already there a week ago.
I wish you the best of luck, and do come clean with your ex.
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