Ok so im kinda very worried, well have been for about a week or two. So im 14 and i rhink i might be pregnant, but the problem is im still a virgin. I know its probably not posble but i read online on a different medical website its possible for sperm to be on a toilet seat and transfered that way and like 2-3 other possible answers. Im showing all the possible signs of early pregnancy and im pretty late on my period. I dont want to tell my parents yet because it might just be something else or nothing and i dont want to scare them so im seeking medical advice before i ask to take a pregnancy test.
Razhie answered Tuesday October 28 2014, 10:02 am: You are not pregnant. You cannot get pregnant from sperm on a toilet seat.
First off, sperm aint smart. It moves vaguely forward so long as it is alive, and there is a liquid it able to move vague forward in. It doesn't have 'vagina radar'. It's not going to hunt down a viable uterus. It's really, really fucking stupid. Even if viable, living semen was present on a toilet seat (unlikely) and you deliberately rubbed your vaginal opening all over the toilet seat (unlikely) it would still be next to impossible for you to be pregnant.
It's more likely you'd be crushed by a baby grand piano while standing in an open field. 'Cause sometimes people ship baby grand pianos by plane (unlikely), and sometimes planes fail (really unlikely) and sometimes when planes fail the stuff that is in them falls out (extremely unlikely) and sometimes people are underneath the stuff that is falling (basically impossible).
adviceman49 answered Tuesday October 28 2014, 9:59 am: I'll add my voice to the others; YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT. YOU CANNOT GET PREGNANT OF A TOILET SEAT. That is what is called an old wives tale mean to scare you. Sperm does not live long outside the body as it needs to be at body temperature. This is why for inve-tro fertilization the specimen has to be taken at the lab and the women's egg must be ready for immediate fertilization.
At your age your period can become very irregular for many reasons due to puberty. Also stress such as worry about being pregnant will cause your period to be late or missed altogether. As you get older and the stress of life build you can expect to be late or miss more periods.
Your overall health can cause you to miss periods. Health issues such as being underweight can cause your periods to cease altogether. If you have been on an antibiotic medication your period can be late or missed. These are things that unfortunately are not covered in health class or sex Ed.
What I suggest is you do talk with mom as there are also many other reasons for missing your period. Some may require a trip to the gynecologist for a checkup. Mom will know if that is needed. Your period has nothing to do with sex and is a normal function of a woman's body. Your body now functions just as you moms does and you should not be embarrassed to discuss any problems with her concerning your period.
Since logical conclusions for a parent to jump to if you start a conversation with, "Mom my period is late;" Is that your are pregnant. You can avoid that by saying; "Mom I'm a virgin and I have a problem with my period I need to talk to you about." Starting this way should keep mom from going ballistic and allowing for a quiet conversation. It is all in how you deliver a message as to how a person responds. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Tuesday October 28 2014, 2:58 am: You're not pregnant.
There are tons of reasons why a period can be late. Pregnancy is only one of them.
If you're a virgin and have had no sexual contact with a guy, you're not pregnant.
One of the main reasons is stress. And you're just making it worse because you're stressing over being pregnant.
Then there is sickness and tons of other reasons why your period is late.
If you're concerned about your period being late and this keeps happening, go see your gynecologist and they'll help you figure out why and fix it.
But you're not pregnant. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday October 28 2014, 12:55 am: If you have been with a boy and somehow got semen in your vagina, it is possible you can get pregnant.
Toilet seats & things like that...Probably not.
When you are 14 there are many reasons you may not get your period. Stress being one of them, and just being a young teen can mean you miss a period now & then. If you are athletic, that can cause periods to stop too.
All the other symptoms you might have can be caused by other things as well. I think you should just remain calm and see what happens next month. Don't stress out because that doesn't help. If you haven't been with a boy sexually, chances are very good your symptoms are not related to being pregnant. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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