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Sex without a condom
Hi there, f/16
Me and my boyfriend had sex today.
It was his first time but it wasn't mine.
It was really rushed and we didn't use a condom because we didn't have one.
Since it was his first time he didn't last too long but that's ok. What I'm worrying about is the fact that I think he pulled out a second too late and he might have gotten some cum inside me...
I'm absolutely freaking out! It happened today,17/8/14, and I have no way of getting the morning after pill.
I also am not on any birth control pills but I am on anti depression ones....I really need some help.
Please don't judge.
I am not emotionally, physically, emotionally ready for a baby! Either is he!!!
Please, if you have any ideas or options please please please tell me.
Thank you so much!
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Lets start with how close you were to being fertile. Research tells us that 85% of women ovulate some time between the 7th and 21st day of their cycle. You had sex on August 17th. How long was that from the end of your last period? If it is in that 21 day time period it is very possible you could get pregnant. The other 15% of women can get pregnant at any time during their cycle including while having their period. So the safest time to have sex without birth control is the first and last 7 days of your cycle.
Now just a guy may pull out before he cums does not mean no sperm were left behind to impregnate a woman. A guy emits precum during intercourse. Precum is emitted without him feeling it and there is nothing he can do to stop it. Precum functions as a lubricant and contains enough sperm to impregnate a women.
If you had sex during the 21 days you are most fertile you could get pregnant. I suggest you find a way to get the morning after pill ASAP. Being 16 years old under a federal law known as HIPPA you have medical confidentiality over your reproductive system. Part of this confidentiality gives you the right to see a doctor without parental permission for anything relating to your reproductive system. This would include requesting birth control medication.
You are able to go to any drug store and purchase the morning after pill as long as you are over 14. You can also co to any woman's clinic to get the pill and to then be prescribed birth control pills. You do not need parental permission. You have until the 24th to take the morning after pill and have a chance of it working. The sooner you take it the better the chance it will work.
NOTE: If and hopefully you are not; you are pregnant; the same law I spoke of earlier gives you total say on how you proceed with the pregnancy. Your parents have no say in the matter. Meaning that can't force you to have an abortion or stop you from having one. If you are pregnant and decide to go through with the pregnancy you will need to see a lawyer during your pregnancy to see what the law in your state says what your rights are once you give birth.
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I'd find a way to get the morning after pill.
Even the pull out method doesn't always work. There is such thing as pre cum and guys don't even feel it come out. That's why girls still get pregnant even when he pulled out. Because pre cum has sperm in it, so always use a condom.
So try planned parenthood or find a way to go buy the morning after pill.
Next time, use a condom and get on birth control.
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Check with Planned Pregnancy for the morning after pill. It can still be effective if taken before 5 days after which is the lastest statistics. Planned pregnancy do take in teen clients and are bound as other medical practitioners to the Hippa law which protects your right to privacy so no one including parents can know you received help from them without your permission.
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