|
Anxious Much?
Okay so my new sex partner has been through more than 20 sexual relationships(PROTECTED SEX). And I've been through only 4(also PROTECTED SEX).
So we decided to become sexual partners for the former two weeks. First week was okay and we had UNPROTECTED sex TWICE!
Second week we also had UNPROTECTED sex twice...
I am SUPER scared,nervous,worried and much anxious about HIV,STD,AIDS and whatever STD crap there is to carry...
So does anyone here know, as an expert in this stuff when's the PERFECTLY RIGHT TIME to get an HIV test?
Should I wait 3-6months? Or how long?
Also, don't you think I'm in great danger?
Thank you for simply starting or taking a moment read my worries and questions.
High fives to all
Thanks again x) !
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: STD Information?
You should both get STD tests ASAP! HIV tests can be gotten for free without insurance so there's no reason to wait. They will probably ask that you repeat the test in 3-6 months.
Even if your partner comes out HIV negative, you should both wait at least 3 months and get tested again before resuming unprotected sex. This is because the standard HIV test doesn't work when someone is newly infected. About half of all people are infected by someone who would come out NEGATIVE on one of these tests! This because someone who is newly infected is very infectious.
]
I'm no doctor so I went on line to look for you. Typed in a search of "how long until symptoms of std" and got lots of results, heres one that spells out which ones can be asymptomatic and generally how long before symptoms begin to show on the others.
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Have either of you had an STD screening ever in your life? If not, there is no way you can be sure that he or you are in the clear as some of the STD's can lay dormant for a long time and symptoms never surface and some can be passed on without symptoms being there.
My personal opinion is that something just doesn't seem kosher to me here. You state he's had 20 sex partners before and was always careful to use protection. Do you truly believe that he took such care to use condoms each time with each girl even in the heat of passion? Well, okay, maybe he did. Then if he was perfectly capable of putting on a condom in the midst of a heated moment when passions were flowing, why did he stop doing that with you? Did you ever take a moment to think about it? Would you mind explaining to me exactly what you've got that would make a level headed, intelligent, careful guy who was able to take a moment for protection before, now finds himself so overwhelmed by you, that not just once, but four times, he succumbed to having unprotected sex with you? As I said, something about your story is not on the level.
]
More Questions: |