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I can't get... cleavage?
I'm 15 and have 38 D breasts and I cant get them to have the effect of a push up bra. (They don't round at the top and they don't go touch together.) It annoys me so much!! My friend has 34 A breasts and hers do exactly what I want mine to do. How can I get them to have that cleavage 'effect'?
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Well, in this case you might wanna get yourself a smaller bra, like one size smaller. That usually works.
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Razhie's advice is exactly what you need to do.
My cousin is a VP for a major National Brand of women's undergarments. His advice is to call a major department or specialty store in your area and find out when they will have a fitter from one of the manufactures in your area. Most major department stores have their own fitters that travel from store to store and work by appointment.
If there is a bra out there to give you the effect you want the fitter will find one for you. He also said don't be surprised if you find out you're wearing the wrong size bra. Most women who have never been properly fitted usually are.
My advice is to call the major department store in the mall nearest you and make an appointment to be properly fitted.
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A good bra store with a personal fitting.
If that can't get you want you want, nothing can.
And it is possible that nothing can. Your breasts may simply be too far set apart, or just not built to give the effect you want.
So, take a deep breath, and ask a pro, someone who really knows bras and breasts, and be willing to pay out the nose for a great bra.
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Have you asked yourself why you think rounder breasts touching in the middle to produce a cleavage is more desirable? Breasts come in many different shapes, sizes, and nipples that vary as much as the breasts do. The range of difference can even be in the same family. And guess what! It is all natural and every female has to learn to be content with what she has. Young people today, girls and boys are being inundated with media that tells them what the perfect body is supposed to look like. God never intended humans to look like the makeup tricks, camera angled, botox, face lifts, implants, computer manipulated photos of what we are shown as what we need to strive for. It pretty much doesnt exist. The rarity of one female being born meeting todays standards of beauty without having anything done to her is rare, like 1 in 1,000 because thats the oddity, the rest of us with all of our differences are normal and yes we all can be desireable.
At 15, boys haven't yet had time to figure out what they like for real yet. Too many are tricked into going after the girls that they first see pushed at them in the media, even through movies. Beauty on the outside doesn't mean there is beauty on the inside. Eventually in time, they will veer away from the images media tells both girls and guys that is the perfect looking girl or guy, and the males will develop their own personal tastes in women which do not follow at all the images of models or hollywood. Males as they get older, in college years, sometimes beyond, discover that they find the personalities of women just as important if its going to be someone they want to love for the rest of their life. Older men in interviews and in shows on relationships and dating, have stated that what they find the most attractive on a woman is "Confidence". Its not the makeup, the clothes, a models body, that get most the guys to like them. In fact if you had two twin girls in the same place and one was not confident, one was, the male would be attracted to the confident one. Hate to have to tell you that beauty is over rated. It isn't just our looks that make us who we are, its everything else that is as important if not more so.
So to answer your question, is there anything to make your breasts look the way You want them to, short of surgery, probably not. Even then its no guarantee. I used to work for a claims company filing when i was younger. I got a chance to see all the photos from doctors wanting to do reconstructive surgery to breast enhancements gone wrong. Never saw any surgerys needs to reconstruct face lifts gone bad, or other cosmetic stuff, just the breasts. And it was gruesome to see how mutilated looking their chests were now. Just on the off chance that you were one of the breast surgery recipients whose body rejected the implants, grew scar tissues, created cysts and nodules due to the presense of implants or was allergic to, etc... and the best Dr. in the world had very little they could do to make you look anywhere near your normal self again, if your only choices were deformed grotesque chest and your normal self, which would you choose. Thats easy, no one would choose to be grotesque looking, not really having much of anything that could even be recognized as breasts again. However, the choice is yours. Someone may say to try particular bras. Bras can only push and reposition what you have to a degree but I doubt you'll ever find one that does exactly what you want and if its possible, perhaps it hasnt been invented yet.
My advice is to learn to be happy with what you have. I have a site for you to look at. Females your age through nursing moms age, submitted photos of their breasts for this study on what normal breasts really look like. The females were able to add comments with their photo. Some were flat and said their boyfriend or husband or fiancee loved them just like that never wanting them to look different thru a particular bra or surgery. Some had two differing sizes, small, large, pointed sideways or frontwards, with and with out cleavage, and more differences in nipples and areolas (area around nipple) than differences in breasts. None of these gals had a problem with their breasts and as a result, since they accepted themselves, to the male who was attracted to them, their breasts or overall looks wasn't a deciding factor on whether they loved the gal or not. At 15, you're just starting to define who you are. Don't let media, or your friends, or a boyfriend or your parents try to define who you are. And, you do not need to have fully figured out who you are yet either. Its a process that will go on your whole lifetime with the bigger discoveries made first and biggest changes perhaps earlier in life and the smaller minor adjustments that come as you grow older and wiser. Now heres the link. Please watch dear.
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