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i need advice a about hiw to reach an orgasm
Ok...im 12 and I'm a girl I need different ideas on how to reach a n orgasm I've tried my fingers and house household items and can't get a vibrator. So..plz help.
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To reach orgasm your body first has to be ready. Meaning you have to go through or be in puberty and the hormones that allow that to happen have to be released. You may have entered puberty but those hormones may not have been released yet.
The second reason for not being able to reach orgasm is that you may be one of the twenty percent of the women out there that vaginal stimulation does not turn them on enough to reach orgasm.
This is the nice thing about masturbation; it allows you to explore your own body. To find out what turns you on and what does not. I would suggest that you relax, take a nice bath, then go in your room, close the door and lock it if possible. Turn down the lights and lie down on your bed.
Let you hands caress your body, your breasts and your nipples, Find your clitoris and gently rub it. Use some lubricant such as say baby oil so as not to rub it raw while you get excited and produce your own lubricant. Let your fingers run up and down your vagina while stimulating your clitoris. It may take some time; 15 minutes or more but you should reach orgasm this way if you are more clitoral than vaginal.
If this does not work for you and other forms of masturbation have not worked then the problem is age. Your just to young at the moment and have not fully entered puberty yet.
Every one enters puberty at different times in their lives. Some of your friends may have already entered puberty and some may have even gotten their periods and had them for a time. This does not mean there is anything wrong with you or them. Nature has a plan for each of us and when the time comes, if this is the case, puberty will come and hit you like a ton of bricks.
I watched my sister, who did not start through puberty until she was almost 15. Just about overnight she got her period, her breast exploded on her chest and her body went from that of a little girl to a women. When it did I thought my dad was going to go postal for the boys where swarming at the door.
Moral of all this is everything in good time. You can't rush these things. You're 12 years old not yet even a teenager. Your far to young to be worried about sexual things and have plenty of time to enjoy being a teenager when you become one. For now enjoy being 12.
Just a little grandfatherly advise since I am old enough to be one. Just remember when you get frustrated with waiting for something; "Everything in good time."
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There's a reason why you can't get a vibrator. You're 12. Far too young to think about this kind of think.
For heaven's sake girl, focus on your studies not trying to reach an orgasm age 12.
If you're old enough to know this kind of thing then you're old enough to follow the news and see for yourself how hard it is to get a job.
Its honestly not something you need 'help' with-you're so young that a sex clinic or doctor wouldn't help you, they'd turn you away and say its of no concern as of yet.
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Well honey, those are only a couple out of many methods of masturbation. You could try clitoral stimulation. Takes approximately 15 minutes to reach an orgasm
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