i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years almost 3 and we have made out many times and i was thinking what can i do to make him ejaculate faster other then giving him a blowjob or handjob.any help please?
Dragonflymagic answered Thursday July 11 2013, 10:11 pm: Each person is unique. What it takes to get any one male or female to orgasm will differ with the person.
Physically though, it is known that massaging a males g-spot will (with many but not all males) make them ejaculate faster or feel a stronger orgasm which is just as pleasurable if not more so.
So how do you find the male g-spot? Its pretty easy. Here's the part you may not like or him either until he experiences it at least once.
It's his prostrate gland. How do you get to it? The same way Doctors do when they give older males a prostrate check up.
It is a couple inches inside his anus on the side facing the front of his body. Wear a disposable rubber glove or pharmacys also carry just rubber gloves for the finger only. You will want to put lube on the rubber finger you intend to use, best to use the middle finger. I still get my directions backward as i approach with my finger.
You want the pad of your finger to be coming into contact with his g spot so you can bend the finger to press down on it and massage. You both have to communicate well with him telling you if he thinks you're in the wrong place and once you've got the spot, if he wants you to press lighter or harder and just massage, rub it all over. It feels about the size of a walnut. Look it up on the web to see what you are going to be doing. It's really not that gross once you two are comfortable together which you ought to be by almost 3 years together. It doesnt have to be a surprise thing you do in sex that is special.
I have only known of a few guys who dont feel anything that way or did not like.
The majority love it. this from talking to people who are comfortable talking about it. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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