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Can't climax
Hi everyone im young and have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I have never orgasmed before and I really want to for my own benefit and his. How do you move your vagInal muscles? Should you try to tighten up or do I try to completely relax? When he touches my clitorus it tickles more than feels good is that normal? Any suggested positions to try? And his penis is. It the biggest or thickest and doesn't go very deep inside but sometimes it does... But rarely... Does that have an affect? Please any answer to help us out!! I am desperate to orgasm for myself and I want him to think he knows what he's doing
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Well it could be as simple as you trying too hard to climax. If during sex all you are thinking about is getting off and not the pleasure and intimacy then you may be distracting yourself. What I suggest is that you masturbate. Find places you enjoy to be touched and then show him next time he does something to you by moving him/your body to that position. Many girls are unable to climax from penetration and are only able to through clitoral stimulation. This is probably the case for you. If he is pressing too hard, or too directly/quickly on your clitoris it may just make you too sensitive to feel the pleasure. Gentle is key. Climaxing isn't something you can make yourself do, you need the build up and pleasure to have one, but you may just need to relax. Stressing yourself out over it is probably most of the problem. Good luck! :)
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