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Im a 17 year old girl and i have a rabit dildo and i cant have an orgasm
Hi my name is vanessa and im 17 i have a rabit dildo and other toys but no matter what i use i cant have an orgasm. But when i have sex i can. Plzz help am i doing something wrong or what but plzzz help.....Is my dildo not big enough or what.
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No there is nothing wrong. Every woman is different. Some have orgasm like you do only when they have a partner, some only have it with toys. For a period of time in my life, I was involved in swing clubs and everyone there talks about their favorite toys and which works best for what. So I can say from those conversations, that most women get the best orgasms with toys through clitoral stimulation. Some need just the lightest vibration to get off. Other's like myself need a toy that is very strong in its vibrating ability. 80 to 90 percents of toys I have bought just didnt do it for me. And that's why I end up with usually just one. The small wand i use for clitoral stimulation I can't remember the name of. But it vibrates so hard that your hand will tingle forever just from holding it. Some sex stores will have models with batteries in them so you can see how strong they are. But touching anywhere on your body except 'down there' isn't going to tell you how well it will work. I say, wear a thin dress and hold the vibrator up to your crotch. If you can get a terrific sensation through the cloth, it will be better later right on skin. The ultimate toy out there, I had in a previous marriage so i dont have it anymore. But it is called the Sybian. Most people let alone a teenager won't find it easy to afford. But that one plugs in to an outlet, you straddle it, it comes with many parts. Give great clit and internal g spot orgasms. For cheaper on the budget g spot orgasms, I recommend using a pyrex wand that is curved to hit the g spot...no batteries, you just move it with your hand and it works better than the myriad of battery operated rubbery ones. Good Luck Vanessa
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