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STD or yeast infection? I'm so lost. I need help before tomorrow :(


Question Posted Friday April 19 2013, 9:06 am

This has been worrying me everytime. This is also not the first time this has happebed with me though. It started all the way back in January. I had sex with this guy at this party. He told me he was clean an I believed him. But like 3 days before I thought I had a beginning yeast infection. After I had sex it worsened. I burned and itched.. but not just at the vulva area. It happened right before my period too.
I also had cramping on my left side a lot, even when not on period. The whole shape of my vagina changed too. It looks gross not like it used too. It basically looks like I had a kid and around it it pokes out.
My last period I was on birth control and I didn't experience a problem like I did before.
Yesterday I felt some left side cramping again. I felt inside of me and on my uterus, there were hard little bumps on it. I mean TINY. And after I figured that out, my vagina is burning and itching from my vulva to underneath my clit. I have some whitish watery discharge, but not a lot. I seem to look swollen and very red.
I am making an appointment on Monday (today's Friday). So it isn't like i'm depending on this. But I have a date tomorrow with this guy. We did do sex before but not since last Saturday.
It makes me wanna cry thinking of what it will be like. I feel like I won't have fun cause I'll wanna hurry and get home so I can scratch. I looked all over the internet to something simiar to me but I can't find anything and it makes my eyes tear up and my stomach sink... I don't wanna be like this tomorrow too....
Pleasegive me some advice so I can have a long full date tomorrow, it's my first date ever :(


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Razhie answered Friday April 19 2013, 3:47 pm:
Edit in response to feedback.
I'm not sure why you rated me a 1. Whether you've had this before and had it cleared up and then come back... That doesn't change any of my advice.
You shouldn't use and over the counter yeast infection cure if you don't know it's a yeast infection - it could interfere with your doctors ability to determaine what is wrong. Also, your description of small white bumps - that's entirely inconsistent with a yeast infection.
You have a responsibility not to expose others to a potentially serious infection. Get this checked out before you have sexual contact with someone else.


You've expressed so many symptoms is could be many, many things. From herpes or HPV, to bacterial vaginitis or allergies!

As for tomorrow, you need to either cancel your date OR tell your date straight up that there will be absolutely zero below the belt action tomorrow.

You can't do anything with this guy when you don't know if what you have is catching, (that would be seriouly immoral) and you shouldn't do anything, with anyone, when you know it's going to hurt you!

It might sound tough now, think about it: you'll only get one 'first date', do you to spend the whole time stressed and physically uncomfortable? Probably not. If I were you, I'd reschedule.

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