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I have 3the bumps/sores on my vaginal area, please help


Question Posted Tuesday August 7 2012, 11:21 am

Last week i had sex & oral with a guy. The next day my vagina was alittle swollen, but that normal for me since ive barely had sex. The next day the swelling was gone, but about 3 or 4 days ago i noticed my vaginal area was a bit itchy. Afew days ago i looked at my vagina and found that there are about 3 little bumps that are alittle red with a slight white color on top. they are located on one of the inner lips right by the opening and its alittle swollen. Im freaking out and dont know what to do about this or how servire this might be. Someone please help and tell me what i should do about this. Im only 17..

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sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday August 8 2012, 12:55 pm:
It doesn't matter how old you are. The longer you wait, the worse it could get. Getting this looked at right away is the most important thing. Do whatever you have to do to see a doctor. If that means telling your mom, that's what you have to do. Do not risk your health. This could be really serious. You made the decision to participate in an adult activity by having sex. You need to be an adult about the consequences. You can't just have fun and then go back to being a kid. You have to get treated right away and you need to tell the guy that you hooked up with to get treated as well. There's just no way around it. Sorry, and good luck.

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday August 8 2012, 11:52 am:
WE are not doctors so we cannot say what if anything is wrong. If you suspect you have an STD, which is very possible, then you need to be looked ant, tested and treated by a doctor.

I know your biggest problem is do you have to tell you mom in order to see a doctor and be tested. That depends; If you are 14 years of age or older; by Federal Law you can make appointments to see a doctor, be seen by a doctor with or without parental permission. When seen by a doctor anything that you say, be examined and treated for is confidential. Meaning no one, including your parents can be told what you have seen the doctor for. This would include any prescriptions you are provided.


This law is called HIPPA and was specifically worded this way so that young people could seek medical assistance for reproductive help without parental knowledge or interference. The problem you are asking about is in the area of your reproductive organs. Hence you can seek medical help under this law as long as you are 14 or older. You can go to your family doctor, hospital or any clinic and be seen.

Should your mother be with you she will be asked to stay in the waiting room while you are examined. Any information she requests can only be released upon written permission from you to the doctor. Without it the doctor or anyone in the doctors employ will not tell anyone what he/she saw you for.

If you are under 14 you have to ask your mother to make an appointment for you. The doctor is free to tell her anything she asks about. If this is an STD you need to be seen by a doctor and be treated especially if you wish to have children later in life. So if you are 14 or older go see a doctor. If your under 14 find away to talk to mom about taking you to a doctor asap.

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AngelsColumn answered Tuesday August 7 2012, 3:21 pm:
You should tell your mom about what you did with this guy and have her take you to the doctor. Or if you drive you can go there on your own. You should get that checked out there is a possibility that he had something & either he didn't tell you or he didn't know. Go get checked out

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