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So basically, about 2 months ago I had sex with an idiot because I was drunk and I hate myself for it, I didn't want to in the first place but he convinced me I should and when I said we cant because neither of us have a condom he sort of shrugged it off and continued, so I knew I wasn't really going to get out of it... Yes, stupid stupid stupid girl.
Anyway, I am done with him, never want to speak to him again, and I went to the clinic for an STD test and they said they couldn't take a blood test because it hadn't been 3 months, they dd a swab test and it came back I had chalymdia, I took the Az-something treatment and they told me that would be 100% effective but if I'm worried be re-tested in 8 weeks.
Anyway, since then, me and this guy I had been chatting on and off to became serious, and I realise I love him, he loves me we joke about me spending my last year of uni living together and we had sex after ages, we used protection at first but then, a naked hug progressed...as they do... and then we just stopped because he really doesn't like them. Anyway, even though they said it was extremely unlikely I'd have anything serious as the serious ones don't pass as easily(like HIV) I am still worried.
Me and the guy id slept with didn't last long, maybe the length of half a song and he didn't cum. I wanted him to stop asap
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From what you have written, not knowing the laws were you live. It sounds to me that the idiot you slept with raped you. Were I live it is rape to have sex with someone under the influence of alcohol as he or she is unable, by law, to consent. So don't hate yourself you are a victim not a willing participant. If you want you can speak with the police as to whather you can bring charges. You should see a rape counselor for help dealing with how you fell.
As for the chalymdia, it is one of the most common of STDs and it is called the ping pond disase as onec you give it to your partner you both have to be treated or it ping pongs back and forth between you. Once you are bothe treated you are disease free.
As for HIV the chances are very low. I would go ahead and have the blood test and the reppeat test six months after that. This is more for your own peace of mind then anything else. From your writing it does not sound like either you or the idiot are in the high risk group for HIV exposure.
Relax and enjoy youe new boyfriend. In the future use alcohol in moderation. Try not to get so drunk that some idiot can take advantage of you.
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He didn't cum , neither did it last more than 2mins so no worries about anything honey x) 4get the HIV and never do it again because it might last next time
Gd luck
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