hi guys, so about a year and a half ago i was messing around with two guys at the same time. None of us had sex with eachother or anything but they were both fingering me and well..eating me out, together and separately. well it was very painful during them fingering me, and i had them stop. when i woke up in the morning my vagina was very swollen and hurt an extreme amount. (by vagina i mean, not the flaps where the pubic hair grows, inside that, girls have two other flaps, im talking about those.) and the left one was very swollen. to this day it never went back to normal, the swelling went down alot but its still big. and i have touched myself there before to see if it would swell again. well today i decided to try again, with a dildo, (and i have used this one before to see if i would swell) and it hurts now. and there was a little bit of blood. i lost my virginity about 2 years ago, and literally i lost my virginity and didnt have sex again with anyone. i've had sex 1 time, and my cherry was popped than, i know for a fact. so i have two questions, 1)what could be wrong with my vagina and the permanent swell. and 2) why did my vagina bleed? could the walls of my vagina thickened again? thank you guys! any answer helps!
Additional info, added Friday April 6 2012, 5:20 pm: and i went to the gynecologist for this once but i don't remember anything they said about it. i'm thinking about going back. . Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: STD Information? EmbersOfBetrayal answered Friday April 6 2012, 6:06 pm: First things first, PLEASE do go back to your gynae. If there is pain and blood, straight the the docs!
Did you and/or the guys make sure everything was clean? Washed hands and at least rinsed mouths? Did you wash up after the fingering?
I'm not too sure about this one but: perhaps they were too rough with you.
One lip forever staying bigger than the other I'd say is not to worry about. What there is to worry about is that it still hurts when triggered and it bleeds too.
I don't think walls of your vagina thin out after losing your virginity or anything like that because the vaginal walls/vagina expands/stretches during intercourse or arousal, the walls do not thin or thicken.
Best bet is to go to your gynae again and remember what s/he says. It doesn't sound too serious but I'm not a professional in this area. Hopefully it's not bad news.(: [ EmbersOfBetrayal's advice column | Ask EmbersOfBetrayal A Question ]
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