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I don't want sex. Is this normal?


Question Posted Sunday January 22 2012, 11:59 pm

i dont wont sex am 32 years old women with 2 kids is the normal


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adviceman49 answered Monday January 23 2012, 10:29 am:
This is a yes and no answer. For your husband this is a no as he is at a point in his life where he is wanting more sex. For you with everything you have to do, especially if you work outside the home, sex is not a priority for you. You were in your sexual prime about a decade ago. This is kind of a natures trick.


You should have some sexual desire but just may be to tired to answer the desire. Preferring rather to cuddle up with a good book or even to just cuddle on the couch with you husband.


I do suggest that you see your GYN and discuss this as it is also a sign of early menopause, something that at your age could be the problem but is extremely rare. What you may need is some hormone adjustments. A simple blood test will tell the doctor if this is the problem.


My feeling is that if you work outside the home, have children and all the soccer mom stuff that goes with having active children. Then the problem is most likely your just to tired and she is not a priority. Still see a doctor just to make sure.

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Rena-Chan answered Monday January 23 2012, 9:25 am:
Lack of libido in women is very common. Near 35-40% of woman have a low sex drive or even no sex drive. It is typically related to some factors such as anemia, alcoholism, drug abuse, medications, hormone abnormalities, and mental state. But mostly it is a mental state. If you don't think about it, you really don't feel the need for it. If it is a bother for you or your partner, then I could suggest speaking with your doctor. I hope this was helpful.

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