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Sexual Pills.


Question Posted Thursday January 12 2012, 6:12 pm

are there any sex pills that i can drink? I really dont have any energy for sex and I hardly feel anything when i have sex with my boyfriend. I get bored by it. I need pill that could give me the right energy and could turn me on. can you please tell me of any sex pills out there that I could get in the pharmacy.I would highly appreciate it. thanks in advance :)

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adviceman49 answered Friday January 13 2012, 10:37 am:
Unfortunately there are no little pills on the market that actually increase you sex drive or sexual feelings.


There are a number of reasons why you could feel as you do. One could be your boyfriend is not aware of what he needs to do to turn you on better. This is quite common. While all males are built the same and all women are built the same; we are not all the same in our enjoyment of things and this very much includes sex.


You must first know what turns you on. Many women are more clitoral than vaginal. So in foreplay a guy who constantly stimulates your vagina and ignores your clit will not turn you on very much. The same goes for your breasts and nipples. Maybe just sucking on them is not enough stimulation for you. This goes for other parts of your body as well.


The same goes for a guy. Just because he comes does not mean he got a lot of enjoyment from the sex. If you give him a handjob most boys will eventually cum. Stick your finger upon his butt hole and massage his prostrate gland and he will cum without any stimulation to his penis.


What is the answer to this; communication. If you are having any type of long term relations you need to communicate to one another what you like and what you don't like. Otherwise sex just become a mechanical act as you described in your question.


If this is not the problem and you two are communicating and educating each other on your sexual needs and desires. Then I suggest you discuss this with your GYN. If you are on birth control the medication in the birth control may be the culprit or it could be something else. Talking to and being open with your doctor is the only way you will know.

In the event you are under 18 but over 14. Anything you tell your doctor by law remains with the doctor. For questions regarding your sexual health Federal Law gives you total Medical Confidentiality under a Law known as HIPPA. Without your written permission your parents or anyone else cannot know what you tell your doctor or what you are being treated for. Neither can your mother insist on being in the exam room with you during you visit to the doctor. All you need do is ask the doctor fir privacy and they will ask your mom to wait in the waiting room.

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