Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


i have a std but my girlfriend doesnt and i dont cheat!!!


Question Posted Wednesday January 4 2012, 6:48 pm

Well i went to the doctor and got test for a std. the test results came back in and it was positive for Chlmydia. When i ask my girlfriend about it she said she had nothing and went to the doctor. however, i do not know if she went to the doctor because we dont sty in the same area and she said her status came back negative. all i can do is go off what she said. Adjacent to, i had sex with my girlfriend while she was heavy on her period and shortly after i started having irregularities. the first time i went to the doctor he said i had nothing and gave me some pills. so a time came again i had sex with my gf on her period when it was heavy again. then again the feeling came back. Could i have caught chlmydia from her that way? are is she having sex with someone else? i love her and want to believe her but i dont want to be with a cheater!!!

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: STD Information?


adviceman49 answered Thursday January 5 2012, 10:16 am:
To learn more about Chlamydia I suggest you check out the information in the link I have provided. It is from the Center for Disease Control.


In a nut shell it is possible that your girlfriend is not cheating on you. Chlamydia is a very common disease found in sexually active young people and is very dangerous to the reproductive system. About 3% of the women screened who have the disease will not check positive for the disease.


The CDC recommends annual checkups for Chlamydia in sexually active people.


I would recommend that if your girlfriend wants to eventually have babies. She go back to her doctor and advise the doctor, preferably her GYN, that you are infected and that you two have unprotected sex.


The CDC recommends the use of condoms to prevent the spread of this disease.


[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

[ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question
]




Razhie answered Wednesday January 4 2012, 8:30 pm:
If you don't believe your girlfriend that she went to a doctor and it came back negative, then you need to dump her, right now.

She might be innocent, but that doesn't actually matter.

If YOU can't have faith in her, then your relationship is over, regardless of where you actually contracted Chlamydia.

[ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question
]



retry32 answered Wednesday January 4 2012, 7:29 pm:
std's dont only come from sex and ur theory is plausible. no cheater?

[ retry32's advice column | Ask retry32 A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: iMessage
Next Question >>> Do you think he likes me?

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

Am I wrong for choosing to stay at my job?
living with an abnormally fast metabolism
Just Saw My Best Friend's Reddit Confession – What Should I Do?
Should I give up?
Tired of being put in the corner

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker