13 year old female curious about her female friends bodies
Question Posted Wednesday December 28 2011, 10:19 am
i am a 13 year old female and i am curious of my female friends bodies. i mean i am curious about if they have pubic hair or big boobs so i peek when they are changing clothes and such. does this mean im a lesbian? because i have crushes on boys and think they are hot but sometimes feel an urge to kiss my friends if are faces are close together.does this mean i am bi or lesbian or just curious??
please no mean answers :) thanks!
However since you mentioned wanting to kiss your female friends it definitely does sound like you're curious, however I think that you are a little young to do anything sexual now. But when you get older, I suppose that you can do it now if you want, experiment with another girl and see how you feel about it. You'll get your answer by how you feel about the situation, you may not be bi but you may be. [ soadorable__x3's advice column | Ask soadorable__x3 A Question ]
babymoby answered Wednesday January 4 2012, 3:28 am: I don't think you are and I don't tink other people houd either cause at 13 apparently it's common. I'm 12 and so i kinda get what u mean. But so u don't have to peek everyone is going through everything you are too or will so don't worry [ babymoby's advice column | Ask babymoby A Question ]
jessie22 answered Monday January 2 2012, 12:25 am: Its very normal I'm 12 and I'm really curious about females when I'm attracted to guys and I'm not lez or bi... and lylybaby23 shut your mouth you don't know what youre talking about and FYI you isn't spelt y.e.w.
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Denabella answered Saturday December 31 2011, 7:33 pm: It is perfectly normal for you to be curious. I don't think you're bi or lesbian right now,but you're just exploring. Don't worry about your sexuality just yet. You're too young and it'll only cause a major headache. [ Denabella's advice column | Ask Denabella A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Wednesday December 28 2011, 8:26 pm: You aren't necessarily bisexual or a lesbian. You are just beginning to develop your sexual identity, and it's natural to be curious about both woman's bodies and men's bodies. In a few years you'll be able to better understand your sexuality. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
Sumani_Luvs_Yu answered Wednesday December 28 2011, 5:31 pm: Well, lesbian means yu like girls. Bi means yu like boys and girls. So if yu have a crush on boys and girls, I hav a feeling yu might be bi. Lyk my friend was bi but ahe dated boys. But there is a chance yur probably bi. Its not a bad thing bcuz ppl cnt judge yu on wat yu are. :) [ Sumani_Luvs_Yu's advice column | Ask Sumani_Luvs_Yu A Question ]
Xui answered Wednesday December 28 2011, 2:53 pm: Perfectly normal
You are young and are developing. If you look at your friends that does not make you a lesbian or bisexual. Many young teenagers are curious and this isn't unusual.
Lesbian defines someone who is sexually attracted to women or has sexual relationships with women. Not someone who is curiously checking out their bodies to see how one develops.
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