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Is Masterbating Safe? (Std's and stuff)
Ok i know giving blowjobs and every other type of sexual acts are bad but what about masterbation? You cant get an STD from it unless you touch someone else's private then yours right? Is it the only safe way to be satisfied and if so PLEASE add a link to your answer to websites that give techniques and stuff like that
Thank you to everyone who answers in advance.
oh and im 13/female :)
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Masturbation is perfectly safe unless you begin bringing in foreign objects to supplement your fingers that aren't safe to use. Also, overuse of vibrators can cause an eventual inhibition of clitoral sensation. So keep the power tool use to a once in a while thing.
As far as technique, everybody is different. Different strokes for different folks, as they say. Just play with your clit and see what feels good. Also, your g spot is just inside your vagina on the upper wall and it feels like spongy ridges. Initially, when you stroke that area, you may feel a need to pee, but that will change into pleasurable sensations. You will not cause urination by stimulating your g spot. So relax and enjoy!
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STD means sexually transmitted diseases. You have to be having sex or doing sexual activity with another person in order for the disease to 'transmit' to you. So yes, masturbating is completely safe.
It's not so much technique for a girl, you just got to figure out what you like. There's a little spot I guess you could call it just inside the flaps of your vagina near the top. It'll feel like a little mound or bump. THis is the clitoris. This is incredibly sensitive and for a lot of women will cause stimulation and eventually an orgasm.
Here is an image showing you where to find it:
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If you're still having trouble, just search "clitoris" and there will be photos and images of women's genitalia.
There's also a thing called a 'G' spot inside your vaginal hole. There are two holes in your vaginal area. One is your urinary hole that you urinate from, the other is a bigger hole that's for sexual penetration and what babies come out of. It's pretty easy to find because it's a lot bigger than the urine hole. Slide your hand down your vagina and move with the curve of it until you find a hole or opening. It'll be small and a little bit tender and sore if you've never touched it or had sex before. The thing is to do it slowly and if it starts getting sore then stop. Lotion or some kind of lubricant would be useful and will make it feel better. Naturally the vagina produces a liquid that acts as self lubrication but sometimes it can still be a little too dry. The G spot is located inside the vaginal walls (so, inside the vaginal hole). It's about 1-2 inches in I would say and is on the ceiling of the vaginal wall. It feels kind of coarse and bumpy. The vagina is really sensitive, and even if you can't find your G spot it can feel nice to touch yourself in or around your genitals.
Just touch yourself and see where it feels good. Use some lotion if you have to as it may be too dry. Be gentle at first.
If you're interested in your body, look at yourself with a mirror. If you don't have a mirror you can sit down in front of, just grab a hand held one and have a look at your vagina. There's nothing wrong with checking yourself out and seeing what it all looks like.
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