alot of people say that fingering feels good.. but whenever i or someone else does that to me ..it doesnt feel good.. is there something wrong with me ?
xxhbbxx answered Thursday June 29 2006, 12:39 am: Not at all. Fingering is a very sexual thing. It hurts because its a force thats going up in your vagina.Its not some walk in the park! Fingering doesnt work for you, thats okay! Try something else! [ xxhbbxx's advice column | Ask xxhbbxx A Question ]
Melody answered Tuesday June 27 2006, 3:46 pm: Nothing is wrong with you. When my boyfriend first started fingering me, I thought it hurt. But after we had sex, if felt good. It's strange & I don't know how that works, but yea. I still don't think it feels good when I do it, but maybe I just suck at it ;) LMA0.
jessisthecoolest answered Monday June 26 2006, 8:57 pm: there's nothing wrong with you.for me, it doesn't feel good when i do it but when my boyfriend does, i like it.but it took me a while to find it pleasureable.i think it's a lot about being turned-on. [ jessisthecoolest's advice column | Ask jessisthecoolest A Question ]
ScratchesOnTheWall answered Monday June 26 2006, 2:52 pm: Doubtful. Either you're not relaxed and/or comfortable when the guy's doing it or the guys in question have had little good practise. Or you just might not like it which is fine. (quick tip- make sure whoever's doing it has trimmed nails coz that can HURT)
JC answered Monday June 26 2006, 2:49 pm: There is nothing wrong with you; sex is a very individual thing. What might feel good for one person may do nothing for another. One of the reasons that fingering often does not feel good for women is because simply inserting a finger "up there" and moving it around doesn't necessarily stimulate things properly. It can even feel uncomfortable. Truthfully, young men need proper instruction on how to do this. When done properly, fingering can actually stimulte the g-spot and bring on tremendous orgasms. However, this typically takes much practice and some women report to never have discovered their g-spot (but many do). If you would like to learn more about this, I would recommend reading up on the g-spot; there are many good books on the subject.
I also strongly recommend that you buy a small vibrator that you can insert in you and experiment on your own first. Then, you will be able to explain to your partner how you like it. Or, you can experiment with your own fingers but sometimes it is easier to use something else when inserting inside of you. Good luck and have fun! [ JC's advice column | Ask JC A Question ]
AskNicolethtsme answered Monday June 26 2006, 2:05 pm: Um, well take a shower first and put some lingerie on and just get down to business. You know that you could be in the wrong position or maybe you just aren't ready. Instead of taking a shower though, you could pick up some KY jelly from CVS or something. not Vaseline though. [ AskNicolethtsme's advice column | Ask AskNicolethtsme A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Monday June 26 2006, 1:45 pm: Nothing is wrong with you.The guy might not be doing it right..or you might not be wet enough.Or it can be the position your in that might cause it..,but if its not one of those maybe you just don`t like it, but nothing is wrong with you.♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
babiigirl answered Monday June 26 2006, 1:40 pm: No your perfectly normal. He may not be doing it the right way or maybe you were in a uncomfortable position. You probly should be wet sothat he doesnt cut you && hurt you down there. When you finger yourslelf you dont really get the full effect.
kristen22 answered Monday June 26 2006, 1:11 pm: No. nothing's wrong with you. Alot of people don't even like it. *coughs* There could be alot of reasons why you dont, and that is because it's not done right. Make sure his fingernails are cut and not jagged (ouch!) also, you have to be wet enough. Being to dry can hurt like hell. If it's none of these reasons, then that's ok to. Your entitled to like or dislike anything you want. Your completely normal. [ kristen22's advice column | Ask kristen22 A Question ]
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