okay say if you give someone oral sex and you do swallow their cum. well do you like always get STDS or only if they have an STD? because people make it sounds that everyone has an STD and if you dont use a condom then you'll get STDS. like im confused.
DaNieLLe_AshLeYx3 answered Monday January 16 2006, 2:58 am: haha, i swear some people out there, their crazy. how can you get something from somebody, if they dont have anything?? if you and your partner are both tested for an STD, and you both come out negative for it, then you can have oral sex and not worry about getting an STD. Just make sure that you both know for sure that neither of oyu have an STD,becuase if one of you doesnt think that you have it, & you really do, you can spread it to your partner. and thats not fun=[ hope i helpedd ♥ [ DaNieLLe_AshLeYx3's advice column | Ask DaNieLLe_AshLeYx3 A Question ]
devilspawn_666 answered Sunday January 15 2006, 5:20 pm: You will get the STD if the other person has the STD and you don't use any form of protection. Not everyone in existance has and STD, but many people have them and don't realize that they have them, and that's why there are all the "Protection" commercials on TV and the radio... to remind people that getting an STD is a risk. [ devilspawn_666's advice column | Ask devilspawn_666 A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Sunday January 15 2006, 3:16 pm: I understand why you would be confused, it can be confusing with all these people telling us to use protection and such.
You will only get an STD if they have one themselves. If they don't have one, then there's nothing there to pass on to you. However, you should never ever have unprotected sex of any kind until you are 100% sure that your partner is STD free. By 100%, I mean showing you test results from the doctors. [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
karenR answered Sunday January 15 2006, 1:50 pm: Everything said so far is correct. I will give you website though that you can go to for information on STDs. If you check the column on the left side of the web page, there is a chart you can go to that gives symptoms.
Mostly with oral sex, you want to watch for any kind of sores.
Mckick answered Sunday January 15 2006, 1:49 pm: If you give someone oral and they don't have an std you can't get it, but if they do yes you can get it. Just make sure the person your with is clean. It doesn't hurt to ask them to get checked before you do it with them. [ Mckick's advice column | Ask Mckick A Question ]
S_C answered Sunday January 15 2006, 1:39 pm: If they have an STD then you will get it, if they don't have an STD then you won't get an STD. BUT, you should ask if they have an STD, they might say no to hide that they have one, and/or they might say no because they don't know that they have one, or they might admit to having one. If they do have one it would be smarter not to perform oral sex (or anything sexual) at all, though condoms do protect against STD's, as long as they don't break.
betterthanyou_X3 answered Sunday January 15 2006, 1:32 pm: No, if they don't have an STD then you won't get one. But, they might have one without you or themselves knowing it. Even more kids these days are having sex and aren't educated about it so they don't know how to protect themselves. That's why it sounds like so many people have a STD. [ betterthanyou_X3's advice column | Ask betterthanyou_X3 A Question ]
Alin75 answered Sunday January 15 2006, 1:14 pm: They have to already have an STD. And then there is a significant chance you wont get anything anyway (depending on the STD). The reason people say it like that is to scare you. Not to trivialize STDs because if you get one it wont be a pretty picture, but its not as easy as that. [ Alin75's advice column | Ask Alin75 A Question ]
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