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Can one virgin give another virgin any STD's


Question Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 5:14 pm

ok my boyfriend told me that alot of times when guys have sleepovers they dare each other to give each other blow jobs and so like he told me he gave two of his friends bj's and his friend gave him one. A while after he told me that i gave him one but we werent protected and now im freaking out cuz im scared i might have gotten one. but could some one blowing him give him an std, if they didnt have one? we are both virgins also.. so is it possible that i might or he might have one? AND... can a virgin having sex with another virgin give one virgin herpies or somthing?

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Imperialistic answered Tuesday October 4 2005, 8:13 pm:
To all your questions, the answer is yes. Alot of STDs (or STIs as they now call them) can be transferred mouth to mouth or mouth to genitals.
Secondly, this doesn't sound like normal guy behavior. Are you sure your boy friend wasn't pulling your leg?

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justa_thug20 answered Tuesday October 4 2005, 7:08 pm:
u know what thats just being gay serius aint nobody going to wanna do that to there friends and if u guys are virgins then theres nothing to worry about

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BeastFromTheWeast answered Monday October 3 2005, 9:02 pm:
You arent disturbed that your boyfriend is giving and recieving blow jobs from other boys? Id worry more about the fact that your boyfriend is sucking dick..rather than an STD.

Unless you have any weird sores around your mouth you have nothing to worry about.

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karenR answered Monday October 3 2005, 12:49 am:
Here is a website so you can get the right info.
Some STDs can be caught this way. Herpes is the main one. A cold sore in your mouth...a form of herpes.

While it is very doubtful he got it. It is indeed possible. Check out the site.

[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

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feversandmirrors answered Sunday October 2 2005, 11:53 pm:
First off, don't listen to the people that are calling your boyfriend a 'fag'. That is completely disrespectful and uncalled for. He could be bisexual too, and even then, who cares?? Just about EVERY ONE on this planet has had feelings towards some one of the same sex, or has been curious about it. Yes, even the people calling your boyfriend a 'fag'.

Anyway. To the question. It IS possible to transfer STDs through oral sex. If one of the guys he gave a blowjob to had some sort of genital herpes, your boyfriend would then have oral herpes on his mouth. And it could be transferred to you through kissing or him going down on you. ...Or, if some one who had oral herpes gave your BF a blowjob, then your boyfriend's penis would then have the herpes...

If you're really worried about it, talk to your boyfriend. Ask him how sexually active his friends are, or if they have anything, or if he saw anything unsual on them. If you're even more worried, go get tested together. I'm sure you're fine.

I'm proud of you for not getting mad at him, or calling him gay like every one else! The boys in the group probably just have a curiousity. It's completely normal.

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mediasucks answered Sunday October 2 2005, 11:06 pm:
first of all your boyfriend is gay.im sorry but no one i know dares another guy to suck him off.thats just sick.anyway,if those fags had herpes and he went down on your boyfriend then you might.herpes can be transferred by touching them.seriously i think your boyfriend is gay

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CameronASTB answered Sunday October 2 2005, 10:18 pm:
well... yes... you both could, but its not a 100% chance, maybe he never got 1, or he might have, & he could or could not have transfered it to you

& yes, virgins can carry STDs, even if they do not have any, they can carry them, or they could, you don't really know unless you get tested

but I wouldn't worry to much, I would look it up on google the chances & the symptomes, & then if you can (you might not want to let your parents know if your under age) I think that you might want to get tested if your get really worried & might be afraid that you have 1 or are showing symptomes

hope I helped & I hope things are ok

-Cameron

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cailoisa answered Sunday October 2 2005, 7:45 pm:
I've never heard of a blow job dare...that's different...

Anyways, yes, your boyfriend could have gotten an STD from either giving or receiving a blowjob. Not likely, but it is possible. And if he did get one, he probably gave it to you. If you ahve had NO sexual experience, and you aren't born with an STD, then you can't give one to anyone. Babies sometimes get STD's if their mother has one because of the body fluids that pass between baby and mother during birth. If you were born with one, you would know it by now.

If a person (a virgin) has not come into contact with herpes, then they can't give it to someone else.

I hope that helped, even though I've never heard of a blow job dare. Different strokes, I guess.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday October 2 2005, 7:32 pm:
Ew your boyfriend is a fag get rid of him.. ♥ Dez

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xomegaroni answered Sunday October 2 2005, 7:25 pm:
there's a lot of possiblities so like i can't really say, but if you go to-

www.coolnurse.com

maybe you can get specifics. other than that you both really need to get checked out.

-hope that helped!♥

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sillyrob answered Sunday October 2 2005, 6:30 pm:
I'd answer this if I didn't think it was fake.

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